My nephew "Johnny" is 11 years old.
Last year he just began to put on weight. No change in diet, medication or environment...
But with the weight gain he overall looks plumer, - face, arms, legs... His ass unfortunately grew very much noticably bigger. He dresses like the other boys in those skinny jeans and all.
So what made me make the thread was that while out at a family activity it was his turn and a man called out that, "hey its your turn miss!".
My nephew went off!!! I didnt find it funny at the time, but yeah I kinda laughed later alone at home (I laughed at my nephews hillarious outraged reaction, not at his body, though it looks feminine to be honest)
A female family member once said to me that, "Johnny has an ass like a girl", this was like a year or so before the plumpening... I just said that lets not give him a complex about it...
Oh his dad is skinny and tall so he is quite tall too. But his mom, though shorter, is VERY curvy, big ass and big shapely hips and a tiny waist - (the type of figure people have injections/fat transfers and ribs removed to achieve).
He has brothers and they do not have this body type.
Coz of Johnny's height he looks like a person in their early teens. But coz he is still a little boy he doesn't have a "man face" - dont know how else to say it..
Would working out/becoming more athletic make a significant difference to his body? Make it more masculine...
Anyone dealt with this male body type or know a man who went through this?
Any hope or he should accept, embrace and keep it moving?
But is it wise for all of us to act like we cant see that he is going through a very obvious physical transformation.
Would any talk that was ever had with him be better coming from a man or a woman?
Try to reduce that.
