Men's advice on dating for women

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Coli men seem to have all the answers, so here's your chance to show out and share gems.

My question of the day is if dating and a relationship require two people getting used to each other and adjusting to the other person's wants and needs... How patient should you be? How long do you wait for someone to get their act together?

People say we should give guys with potential a chance. And I understand you teach people how you want to be treated. I'm patient but I don't want to feel like I'm raising a man. Its to easy for me to just move on to the next one when I get stressed out.

Help me brehs, I'm trying to choose better.

@Phoenix Reborn @IronFist @Oso @MooseMouthMthafuga @Chief @baqardi @General Mills @Mr. Somebody

I'm lowkey offended that you didn't seek my sage advice

Let me speak to you with African ideologies, because this American mindset that you have (and other people are posting with) is getting you nowhere.


Why are you giving guys with potential a chance? You cant eat potential, wear potential, make love to potential. Nothing wrong with admiring what he might become, but if you are banking on that solely, you're doing it wrong.
This Mike Jones philosophy of being upset becasue "Oh, NOW you want me because I made something of myself" is something only bitter nikkas ascribe to.

That's the way it should be. Women aren't clairvoyant, women aren't supposed to raise men. You're not supposed to stick around until he doesn't with his life. That shyt is backwards as hell.

Where i'm from, A man finishes school, gets a good job, and builds his house before he even looks at a woman.


I know Americans want to "grow with the person you love" but that bullshyt gets you in a 6 year relationship with no ring wondering why your man still hasn't gotten that degree he said he would get a half-decade ago.


You're selling yourself short, put this boy in the bushes and go find yourself a grown ass man

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

I'm lowkey offended that you didn't seek my sage advice

Let me speak to you with African ideologies, because this American mindset that you have (and other people are posting with) is getting you nowhere.


Why are you giving guys with potential a chance? You cant eat potential, wear potential, make love to potential. Nothing wrong with admiring what he might become, but if you are banking on that solely, you're doing it wrong.
This Mike Jones philosophy of being upset becasue "Oh, NOW you want me because I made something of myself" is something only bitter nikkas ascribe to.

That's the way it should be. Women aren't clairvoyant, women aren't supposed to raise men. You're not supposed to stick around until he doesn't with his life. That shyt is backwards as hell.

Where i'm from, A man finishes school, gets a good job, and builds his house before he even looks at a woman.


I know Americans want to "grow with the person you love" but that bullshyt gets you in a 6 year relationship with no ring wondering why your man still hasn't gotten that degree he said he would get a half-decade ago.


You're selling yourself short, put this boy in the bushes and go find yourself a grown ass man

I fully agree with that.

That should be a fundamental step.Primary really

I don't believe in growing with somebody out of the gutter.

There's no "grow into love" in that kind of environment.

It's only good for bringing out your primitive survival skills.

That's how we get to preying on one another.

As a man, being established should be the starting point.

An environment wherein there can be peace, harmony, and support.

You expand from there.It's has be some spirituality there, also

And that's just the initial phase.You get that straight, the growing truly begins.

The television show "Empire" what many Americans think "growing together" looks like.

"Real niccaz" and "Ryde or die bytches"