Men's Looks Matters More Than Women Admit, Study Shows

[Thurgood Thurston III]

I've only smashed around 10 chicks in my life and I never waited more than 3 dates (and even that was a long time for me). Why go through months? Why not just bush her? Waiting on anything that long wont make it worth it.

Unless you are looking for long term out the gate , waiting for marriage , or not trying to have casual sex with someone you are comfortable with you should never be waiting more than a few weeks if you don't want to.

There are literally billions of women on this planet, if you want sex why not just find someone who wants the same?

Facts. I've never even taken a woman on a real date. I just take them straight to the crib or chill outside for a bit first.

But a lot of guys have been told that everything is about "game" and so they unnecessarily prolong the shyt.

They prefer stroking their own ego thinking they're "enlightening" the broad.

Trying to show off that "personality"

And women know this and take advantage of it. They'll get some free meals out of you.

I'm trying to tell these guys that a woman who is going to fukk you, would've fukked you.

They think they're doing something with their "mouthpiece" when they could've smashed AGES ago.

If anything, trying to run game just increases the chance that you'll say something stupid.

Some guys use silly tactics like "Just ignore her for 2 days", "Only call her at night", or whatever it is these days

and fail to realize that these things only work if a woman is already attracted to you.

 

[ZoeGod]

What if not feeling the woman who’s feeling you

nikkas need to be realistic and date at their level. Social media and porn have a lot of dudes thinking they deserve to get a 8,9 or 10. Meanwhile they aren’t putting the work to attract a 9 or 10. So they miss out on the 6s and 7s who would love them like no other. I always say if the chick is feeling you and if she was butt naked in front of you would you fukk and if they say yes then go for it. nikkas need to be realistic and find their tribe.

 

[Weaver31]

Y'all stay saying this when a lot of incels get rejected by fat and average broads.

Yup....they came up with that name for a reason....INvoluntarily CELibate

 

[Weaver31]

nikkas need to be realistic and date at their level. Social media and porn have a lot of dudes thinking they deserve to get a 8,9 or 10. Meanwhile they aren’t putting the work to attract a 9 or 10. So they miss out on the 6s and 7s who would love them like no other. I always say if the chick is feeling you and if she was butt naked in front of you would you fukk and if they say yes then go for it. nikkas need to be realistic and find their tribe.

True but u have both men amd women who wanna eat above their weight....its just life

 

[Exlurkernegro]

nikkas need to be realistic and date at their level. Social media and porn have a lot of dudes thinking they deserve to get a 8,9 or 10. Meanwhile they aren’t putting the work to attract a 9 or 10. So they miss out on the 6s and 7s who would love them like no other. I always say if the chick is feeling you and if she was butt naked in front of you would you fukk and if they say yes then go for it. nikkas need to be realistic and find their tribe.

So what happens when the girls on their level don't like them?

 

[Kairi Irving]

The game is rigged against most brehs. When are those sex robots coming

but you want bad bytches, 8+
women like sexy dudes like men like sexy women

 

[semicko82]

nikkas need to be realistic and date at their level. Social media and porn have a lot of dudes thinking they deserve to get a 8,9 or 10. Meanwhile they aren’t putting the work to attract a 9 or 10. So they miss out on the 6s and 7s who would love them like no other. I always say if the chick is feeling you and if she was butt naked in front of you would you fukk and if they say yes then go for it. nikkas need to be realistic and find their tribe.

What if the women on level don’t want you

 

[Genos]

I think that plays apart in why dudes only wanna shoot for that 9 or 10 girl. I also think that stigma extends to women who are say a 9 but dates a guy who (in other ppls opinion) is a 3-4.People have this expectation that if you a 10 you can & should only date other 10s anything less and you trash at dating

It exceeds to women because a lot of women like to link personality to looks, so they assume a beautiful woman is really nice until proven otherwise. So when they see a beautiful woman with what they think is an ugly dude a lot of women look at it like an abusive relationship.

A lot of women who don't know anything about your actual relationship will think the nikka has to be extra nice to the woman or she should leave him because "shes too pretty to be putting up with his shyt."

Men do it too but I think we internalize it more, this is what happens when a rich nikka goes after a bum bytch because she is "bad." Spend hours of work to buy something to keep his girl happy, when she knows you only date her because you think she is fine.

Facts. I've never even taken a woman on a real date. I just take them straight to the crib or chill outside for a bit first.

But a lot of guys have been told that everything is about "game" and so they unnecessarily prolong the shyt.

They prefer stroking their own ego thinking they're "enlightening" the broad.

Trying to show off that "personality"

And women know this and take advantage of it. They'll get some free meals out of you.

I'm trying to tell these guys that a woman who is going to fukk you, would've fukked you.

They think they're doing something with their "mouthpiece" when they could've smashed AGES ago.

If anything, trying to run game just increases the chance that you'll say something stupid.

Some guys use silly tactics like "Just ignore her for 2 days", "Only call her at night", or whatever it is these days

and fail to realize that these things only work if a woman is already attracted to you.

100%, Thinking I had to have game is what caused me to lose out on so much p*ssy because I didn't have it.

I thought there was some sort of code I needed to talk and to them and have sex with them and it gave me anxiety because I would try to pretend to have something I didnt.

The more I saw women as humans like me I realized hella women are lame as hell and you just needed to show through comfortability that you aren't going to hurt them.

If you don't know how they are feeling you could just ask to kiss them, you can even ask to fukk them after establishing comfortability.

And I don't mean ask like "can I have a kiss/p*ssy?" but more like "do you want a kiss/can I get a kiss? You want to fukk"

I figured that at the end of the day, you don't know who thinks your attractive so why not ask? When I want shyt from anyone I usually ask anyways.

If its a no then its up to me to keep pursuing or move on to the next one, even times I've been turned down its never akward

In my experience most women are cool with you being upfront, I think its because you aren't trying to trick them like most dudes are with "game"

 

[Will Ross]

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nikkas need to be realistic and date at their level. Social media and porn have a lot of dudes thinking they deserve to get a 8,9 or 10. Meanwhile they aren’t putting the work to attract a 9 or 10. So they miss out on the 6s and 7s who would love them like no other. I always say if the chick is feeling you and if she was butt naked in front of you would you fukk and if they say yes then go for it. nikkas need to be realistic and find their tribe.

This makes no sense at all if anything social media and porn make dudes feel like they ain’t good enough.

 

[ZoeGod]

What if the women on level don’t want you

Keep playing the field until you find one that likes you or level up by getting in shape and focus on your purpose. Either way you get what you put in.

 

[re'up]

I think a factor that weighs in heavily, is willingness to be in a ling term committed relationship. Plenty of women I know are dating below their (looks) standards, maybe a lot, maybe a little, but I think a lot has to do with the fact they assumedly are invested in a relationship.

 

[semicko82]

Keep playing the field until you find one that likes you or level up by getting in shape and focus on your purpose. Either way you get what you put in.

Real shyt

 

[KidJSoul]

We need to come up with a unifying theory for this shyt to avoid these fukking discussions.

Here the key handful of things that make men sexually attractive (I.e. inspire lust and make women wet, NOT RELATIONSHIPS, JUST SEX), in order.

1. Physically attractive masculinity AKA Looks (height, jawline, muscularity, deep voice)
2. Status/popularity/power/wealth
3. Dominant traits (ability call people out, being very strong, being very athletic, being crafty, being very smart, having utter unrelenting ambition - basically, stuff demands respect and makes you super useful)
4. Utter confidence and fearlessness + "mouthpiece", zero inhibition

Women do care about looks - some of them can literally break their rules for an attractive guy, and vice versa. But:

• Men that are unattractive (provided they aren't too ugly) can still get one if they are elite in at least one of the other areas (such as number 2, 3, and 4)

Looks (number 1) makes things easier by far.

For women, men are sexually attracted to looks first, and feminine behavior after (typically higher voice, "soft" features, clothing that shows off their).

Again, this is purely lust.

Relationships work differently, for both sexes.

As someone said earlier, women are more "accommodating" to attractive men (letting them fukk earlier, more willing to be sexually adventurous and submissive).

Men are unique in that they usually will need to be somewhat attracted to their girl. The girl doesn't need to be sexy, but at least attractive to that particular guy. Once she meets that threshold however, the only other roadblock is if the girl:

1. Let's herself go completely or loses her femininity/attractiveness
2. Lacks the ability to give sexy vibes. (Prudish/boring energy. They don't give you that look.)
3. Bad at sex.

*Any woman can chime in to add more and contribute.

Basically in short, to be sexy, you gotta live up to your gender's standards (be feminine if you're a girl, be masculine if you're a guy)

Being good in a relationship really is just being a good person in conjunction with being sexy (don't be stubborn, mean, bad with money, physically abusive, emotionally abusive, and rape).

Sexiness just makes it easier to get away with the stuff above.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I can assure you we care less about looks than ya'll

Never heard men complain about women’s looks like women do men.

A lot of women can’t find a good man because they want an idris Elba. Brehs that are average or nothing special, don’t get looked at much when out and about.. a lot of women refuse to get with.

Men thirst after all kinds of women, big small tall etc.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Never heard men complain about women’s looks like women do men.

A lot of women can’t find a good man because they want an idris Elba. Brehs that are average or nothing special, don’t get looked at much when out and about.. a lot of women refuse to get with.

Men thirst after all kinds of women, big small tall etc.

Women only want extra good looking men when the man has nothing else to offer.

Of course you don't know this but women having no problem dating men who are not the best looking if they have other things going for themselves. A woman would much rather have an average looking baller over a gorgeous guy with an average income.

Men on the other hand focus primarily on looks. I don't care how good looking you think you are, let a baller walk into the room and any chick you was trying to holla at will face palm yo ass to get to him like i use to do you back in the day.



Women look for value and weight it out. You'll never understand. Men are too Black and White. It more of a scaled system of attractiveness that goes beyond physicality.