ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
I’ve seen too many ugly men (rich and poor) with beautiful women to believe this.
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Youseenmywork
KING
Yep. It becomes mainly about money and security at a certain point. And what kind of lifestyle you can give them. Married dudes be under intense pressure to keep moving up the Corporate ladder so wifey won't divorce his ass. Its the reason most are the biggest ass kissers on the job.
ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
Not denying that physical attraction is important to women but you can charm p*ssy from a woman despite not being her type physically. It’s rare a woman can do the same when it comes to attracting men on a long term basis.
Youseenmywork
KING
The bolden is what makes men special but like I said cook tomorrow in this thread . I'm not going to say touch right now ....
ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
I’m pretty sure she’s a virgin. The fukk does she know about love and relationships?
Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
If you know that women are only fukking with you because of your money, you wont be happy. It's not the genuine thing and these men who are upset are looking for love based off of someone accepting them for who they are. A nikka with money with a fine woman might as well just be paying an elite escort. Drakes whole career is based on "do these women want me or the lifestyle I can give them" it will fukk with you internally if you know money is the only thing people want out of you.
We live in a transactional society (especially in dating) if you don't have the physical currency to attract women you want might as well use that fiat currency idk why tricking is seen as this dishonorable act who cares what route you had to take all that matters is the result
Your looks & other peoples perception of them determines how your gonna be treated in life. Everything from casual meetups to job interviews. Telling someone to just live with/like your ugliness is kinda worse than just flat out telling them nikka you ugly here your current options on how to somewhat "fix " it.
And to my second point, if you like your looks and you're fine with how you look, then you use tools to look your best. Good haircare, skincare, fitted clothing, working out etc. If you're unfortunate enough to have been born cross eyed, have no chin or jaw, a big misshapen nose or really thin lips, etc. And it's been something you've been self conscious about, then theres zero shame in getting surgery. If you've done everything and STILL ain't getting a text back then it's time to go under the knife.
I cant shame a man for trying everything so he can be secure in himself.
ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
@Scustin Bieburr what you said is real. It’s been harder for me to date since I moved up a few tax brackets compared to when I was broke. I don’t like lying but I don’t like women knowing how much I make/sit on.
At least when I was pulling women when I barely had anything, I knew it was genuine. Now, I try to date them as long as possible before they see the crib, cars etc.
They assume I’m hiding being broke, but once they realize it’s the complete opposite, it puts my doubt in my mind what their true motives are, especially if they tolerate a lot of my BS.
Money is good if you just want to attract pretty bytches to fukk and chuck... but long term? It’s not sustainable at all... and that lifestyle gets boring real quickly, believe me.
Thankfully I’ve found another good one though.
At least when I was pulling women when I barely had anything, I knew it was genuine. Now, I try to date them as long as possible before they see the crib, cars etc.
They assume I’m hiding being broke, but once they realize it’s the complete opposite, it puts my doubt in my mind what their true motives are, especially if they tolerate a lot of my BS.
Money is good if you just want to attract pretty bytches to fukk and chuck... but long term? It’s not sustainable at all... and that lifestyle gets boring real quickly, believe me.
Thankfully I’ve found another good one though.
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
A lot of nikkas say they want a dime but but can’t handle dating a dime.Threads like these remind me most people are far less advanced mentally speaking as well as goals/objectives wise. I'm not tooting my own horn or shading the average breh/brehette. But since 5th grade I've been well aware that my spouse has to be a good, well rounded, down to earth person or I'd end up even more unhappy than I was/am. Simultaneously I was aware that is increasingly difficult to find in attractive women. Statistically speaking if given the opportunity with no repercussion I'd fukk 30-40% of women. That's a large chunk, but I'd only date 15% or less. (Limiting myself to the U.S. of course). While attractiveness is cool in the short term, I always knew a women's person(ality), her morals, her knowledge, her wit would keep me coming back. A base level of attraction is need but it's a low threshold to clear, the personality is much tougher.
Someone who is well favored and gifted things with or without their effort early in life generally ends up being an incomplete person at best or a flat out piece of shyt at worst, unless high quality guidance/parenting/reinforcement is given. This "someone" is the majority of attractive people. As a man who's a 6.5/7 I would never date a dime because I can't relate to their journey and would probably find them vapid. Moreover I'd have to do far more to appease them because society would tell them I really don't deserve them. I've always thought men on or below my level that strive for that struggle were just shortsided/simple minded. This is until I realized this is how most people think until they approach late 20s/30s. That's why I've wanted a spouse before my late 20s/elevated status/finances so I could count on the genuine attraction to me.
If #Uglygang has nothing else they must have clarity because they can easily see the nature of people and move accordingly as opposed to moderately attractive to attractive people who seemingly are cloaked in ignorance towards true human nature.
Just my 2 cents
Yup, then they complain
Simple Breh: "My girl's driving me crazy, I swear I should leave her"
Bossino: "Then do it, peace of mind is tantamount breh"
Simple Breh: "But she's sooo hot, tho"
y’all good at telling women what they like
Saysumthinfunnymike
VOTE!!!
I might have said this 9 pages ago but men still care about looks more. I don't care how nice or what job or what the fukk a chick got going for herself.. if I'm not attracted physically she gets a pass
It ain't my fault that is how I'm wired. That said, there are a lot of women I'm physically attracted to that I want nothing to do with because of attitude/horrible personality.
A terrible personality can ruin a woman completely in my eyes.
It ain't my fault that is how I'm wired. That said, there are a lot of women I'm physically attracted to that I want nothing to do with because of attitude/horrible personality.
A terrible personality can ruin a woman completely in my eyes.
SheWantTheD
Veteran
Can't agree. Women make mistakes on choosing partners based on looks just like men do. It's a people thing. All the things we do when it comes to looks and women, women do the same thing. Women will sleep with a man much quicker when they find him very attractive, many might not want anymore or will be fine with just getting sex. Women will see a "fine man" and react in the same way a man would when he sees a fine woman. Now due to societal standards, women often hide their thirtiness.
Women will make sure they don't check out a man as oblivious as men do. Men don't care, we will turn our necks a whole 360 to look at a woman, where as a woman would just wait for the man to walk pass her line of vision to get a peek.
And the only reason people sound alike on this forum is because like minded people tend to flock together. Plus if you spend enough time on this forum, you begin to adopt the thoughts and ideologies of other posters.
There are plenty of dudes on here that have a jaded view of women.. kind of like the other coin of lipstick alley. But does that represent most men? I don't think so.
SheWantTheD
Veteran
that's because of societal pressure. Society pressures women to find a man that can provide and is stable, which may not always be the most attractive man.
But when woman are young and aren't going after men for what they can do for them financially, they go for the pretty boys and things like status.. ie vanity.
Saysumthinfunnymike
VOTE!!!
I agree with this but I do see a lot of nice looking women with big fat dudes and shyt.. like, I still feel like women at any age are never going to be as superficial as us. We are born superficial and it never lets up. Again, I wish it wasn't this way but I can't give a woman I don't wanna fukk with the time of day. I'll be nice but I can't even pretend to be interested.