Messing With Chicks At Work....Is It Always A Bad Idea?

is it always a bad idea to holla at a chick from work?

  • yes, don't do it brehs

    Votes: 66 39.5%
  • nah; as long as you come correct it's fine

    Votes: 31 18.6%
  • by all means shoot your shot, just don't be surprised if you get metoo'd

    Votes: 23 13.8%
  • i'm not tryna get metoo'd breh

    Votes: 17 10.2%
  • don't shyt where you eat brehs

    Votes: 82 49.1%

  • Total voters
    167

Virtuous_Brotha

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My view on it isn't as extreme as some, by no means is flirting with coworkers a thing men should be doing but in those rare instances where there's a lot of chemistry and things "naturally" progress with a chick at work i wouldn't fight against it :manny:.

Just make sure the shyt ain't unsolicited and you getting signals.
 

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It's so many variables and nuances that should be discussed when talking about this..

Just know the relationship starts when the post nut clarity ends..

If you a nikka "settling" , then yeah you can probably weather the "storms" because you might not have a choice in the matter..

If you a nikka who can do better, you gonna be ready to hit the eject button as soon as shyt begin to go left...

If you have both qualities, your gonna fukk/try to fukk other women on the job and hope she don't tell...

Add co-workers hating/gossiping/backstabbing or potentially repaying you for some shyt you did, it can get UGLY...

If you enjoy your peace of mind, get your money and develop a social life where work isn't the main course
 

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If you wanna keep your job, don’t do it.:hubie:

But if you hate your job that’s a different story.:shaq:
 

Asicz

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It has never ended well in the history of everything.
Now if both of you really want something serious and you both work in different departments of the company, then yes it has a shot, but even then it's not worth it.

9/10 both people at some point will want two different things and one usually gets their feelings hurt. And once emotions are involved you might as well start packing it up because it's downhill from there.

There are millions of women who don't work for your company. Fish there.

:duck: :duck: :duck: :duck: :duck: :duck: :duck: :duck: :duck:
 

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All advice aint meant for everybody.

‘Never mess w/ a chick at work’ is for people who don’t understand nuance so you gotta just tell them them NO bc it’s easier then breaking it down

In actuality, what it really means is:

-don’t fw subordinates
-differentiate between a career and a job. If it’s just a ‘job’ who cares :heh:
-don’t fukk with someone you HAVE to see every day
-Only mess w/ someone with just as much to lose as you.
-Don’t lie like you do with a random

If you check all those boxes you good. I’m in the dmv Govt workers fukk all the time why? They work in the same building but with no overlap, and they both have equal loss at stake.
 
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