Messing With Chicks At Work....Is It Always A Bad Idea?

is it always a bad idea to holla at a chick from work?

  • yes, don't do it brehs

    Votes: 66 39.5%
  • nah; as long as you come correct it's fine

    Votes: 31 18.6%
  • by all means shoot your shot, just don't be surprised if you get metoo'd

    Votes: 23 13.8%
  • i'm not tryna get metoo'd breh

    Votes: 17 10.2%
  • don't shyt where you eat brehs

    Votes: 82 49.1%

  • Total voters
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kaldurahm

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One of those things you have to experience for yourself to see how mess it can be.

A lot of people told me not to shyt where I ate, and yet I did that shyt anyways...
 

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It never turns out good breh.

This dude at my job in a position of power almost fukked his whole shyt up last summer tryna date two bytches on the team.
 

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We never hear Coli ladies perspectives on this:

@bourgeoisie tall freak @Boujee Bonita Braxton @Passionate1! @LadyJ2 @CarmelBarbie @Gloxina @Nicole0416_718_929_646212 @dora_da_destroyer @HarlemHottie and whoever else, how do you guys feel on this topic?

Personally, I've done it alot. I work alot, it's the easiest place to meet and bond with women. None have been keepers, so there's that. But they haven't all been messy, there's women I dealt with at work and there was no drama at all...
 

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I'm gonna put it like this..

Whatever mission you go on, make it a solo mission cuz nikkas will gossip and ruin you just as bad as these women will..

Had/have quite a few opportunities that I could maneuver on if I ran the Mahomes no huddle, but I already know nikkas be such haters, they would sabotage and bring the drama to the workfloor...

So I stay in good standing and go about my way when it's time to clock out..

Now if they catch me in traffic(outside), who knows
People don't mention how much this happens. Brehs at the workplace gossip just as much as the females. I stopped hanging out with my coworkers after what happened when we were all lit became the topic of conversation at work. Plus alot of brehs be dirty mackin out here too. It was one breh that had an issue with me because I talked to a chic he was feeling. Breh was up there with her for 2 yrs before I came and never stepped. When I did it he was throwing lil jabs like I stole something from him. I made sure that I smashed her just because of that.
 

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You'll think it's all good after you smash once, only to try it with girl #2 and have girl #1 completely blow up your spot. :mjlol:

This a rare instance where you need to listen to the coli.
 

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Trying to smash women that you work with is only something a desperate or undisciplined man would attempt.

If youre smashing high quality women outside the job then pretty women on the job don't move you that much.

I'm never compromising my paper for some pu$$y
 

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I’ve done it on my current gig I’ve messed with 3 women on the job. My advice don’t do it. When you fall out with a chick she going to put all your business out there then they going to tell your business to the next person. Only thing came from it was old girl said I got a big penis now every chick in there wanna sample. But I’m not even moving like that. I just want peace.
 

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We never hear Coli ladies perspectives on this:

@bourgeoisie tall freak @Boujee Bonita Braxton @Passionate1! @LadyJ2 @CarmelBarbie @Gloxina @Nicole0416_718_929_646212 @dora_da_destroyer @HarlemHottie and whoever else, how do you guys feel on this topic?

Personally, I've done it alot. I work alot, it's the easiest place to meet and bond with women. None have been keepers, so there's that. But they haven't all been messy, there's women I dealt with at work and there was no drama at all...
I met my husband at work.
 

Boujee Bonita Braxton

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We never hear Coli ladies perspectives on this:

@bourgeoisie tall freak @Boujee Bonita Braxton @Passionate1! @LadyJ2 @CarmelBarbie @Gloxina @Nicole0416_718_929_646212 @dora_da_destroyer @HarlemHottie and whoever else, how do you guys feel on this topic?

Personally, I've done it alot. I work alot, it's the easiest place to meet and bond with women. None have been keepers, so there's that. But they haven't all been messy, there's women I dealt with at work and there was no drama at all...

I personally have never dealt with someone that I’ve worked with. There’s been attraction and flirtation but I’ve never taken it there.

I always felt it wasn’t a good idea. At the end of the day, work is where I make my coins. I want to be as comfortable there as possible and if things go bad in the relationship, now you have to deal with the awkwardness or tension.
 
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