Sigh
You’re going to get a ton of “don’t sh*t where you eat”, “don’t do it!”, “hell no breh!”, type of hot takes etc etc.
But let me tell you what I’ve learned from my own personal experience.
I’ve worked in about a handful of call centers, at different times throughout my adult life. Yes, literally about 5 different call centers. As is the nature of call centers in the state that I live, they’re mostly Black, and mostly female. And with that dynamic, as a young Black male single with no kids, it’s a literal smorgasbord of pickings when it comes to women. And, you are highly sought after.
So i say all that to say, I used to run through women like Nick Cannon running through prenatal clinics. There were times I was smashing like 3 chicks in the same building, at once. And I have never, ever had a problem. Not no drama, not no “me too” type sh*t, not no baby daddy’s pulling up to the job wanting to fight me, nothing.
So no, messing with chicks at work is NOT “always a bad idea”, from MY experience. I did it for years with nary a hiccup.
My biggest advice would be to choose wisely. I’ve had some of the baddest b*tches I’ve ever seen sending me emails about my d*ck print and wanting to f*ck me and I used to pass on them because I knew they could be trouble. What does “trouble” look like? The trouble ones are the ones who are super hood, or super talkative, or any chick that is friends with everybody in the workplace, or she has a known crazy bf/baby daddy…and just other obvious signs. You just have to use your head, and choose wisely. I literally cannot count how many women coworkers I’ve f*cked back in my call center hopping days. But I can count how many problems I’ve had from it - ZERO.