this...i legit dont get where this came from, my circle, most my friends think he's handsome/sexy - his "good morning beautiful" texts would get a reply
Because he's famous and wealthy.
Even the ugliest dude can get by on that. Just look at these ugly cacs getting women from clout and money.
In the absence of that he'd be a lame that they don't want.
And as other's already mentioned Black women really don't like cultural diversity. They're stuck on if you're not a self destructive superthug you're corny/lame.
That is until their 30's when they have 2+ kids by said superthugs and need a simp to rescue them. However even if they're saved they'll still want the superthugs that only want younger women.
So it's a lose lose situation for rational and productive Black men even going near those sorts of low vibrational women.