White women get mad about shyt like this all the time. At work there's this black male pharmacy rep that seems like an upstanding guy even though my position doesn't require me to deal with him directly. But all the white girls hate him. They say he's creepy because he smiles at them and on occasion has touched their arm while talking to him. I had to pull him to the side one day and tell him " breh, these white girls talk about you behind your back don't be overly friendly to them because they think you want them". He said thanks sis but I can tell that he was taken aback by this. My point is there's white women out there that think that all black men want them. They take a smile or a careless touch on the arm as a violation. Especially the white feminists. I guess as a black woman I'm used to dudes calling me sweetie, baby, darling, etc. it doesn't bother me. Most old black ladies call me the same thing. I'd rather be called that than something derogatory