Tone down the emotional language. U sound triggered...
A dr works on stats. 1 in 10000 kids having a bad reaction isnt a big deal, which is logical but to a mother its a risk she may not want to jump into.
When you actually have kids, load them up with every shot the dr reccomends day 1, witness your childs reaction with the shrill crying, low energy, slow and jerky reactions and maybe on the next go round ull think, mmmmmm, maybe i should only do 1 next time
This is probably as close as u can get to understanding a concerned mothers logic.
If there are Drs that wont give theur kids vaccines, noy understanding why a mother would not is insensitive and ignorant of reality.