They are gonna say you’re c00ning but you’re right. Unless you’re of a certain look or status, a lot of dudes see the masculine mean side of women that look like them. I don’t think it’s really race specific. Average looking white dudes probably go through the same thing with white girls who are just a little more aggressive towards them.
Ppl on this site call ppl kewns for all kinds of dumb reasons. Basically, if you don't act or think like them then you are a kewn.
If you don't find certain Blk women attractive, then you are a kewn.
I'll be that, I guess? I don't care. * shrugs*
To one of your points, I agree that it isn't race specific. I have a lady friend that I keep in touch with that happens to be white. Met her in college.
At one point, she had expressed interest in me, but I wasn't feeling her, so she moved on..
She eventually met a Nigerian Breh in college, married him and had 2 kids.
Fast fwd many years later, found me on Facebook and we became FB friends. She is still with her husband.
But, I vaguely remembered that she told me that the reason why she liked Blk men is because dating white men felt like dating her brother, so it turned her off.
Also, she had a bad relationship with her Dad and he may have been racist. Not sure about the latter since this was told to me back in the early mid 90s.
Your point made me think of my friend. She is a good person with a great family!
Lastly, we just have to accept that times are changing. Ppl are more tolerant and open minded about IR relations than previous generations.
Mike's kids may very well date/marry out. Their social network may not include many nor any Blk kids who have comparable personality traits.
TI made some good points. Their kids were born and raised in a more privileged environment. So, the ppl their kids grew up around may be overwhelmingly non Blk. So, that is who they gonna date.
Maybe as they get older and live life may find Blk ppl who fits their lane?
Their choice!