Elle Seven
Superstar
I'm the lucky one, actually. IYour husband is a lucky man
was a major cause of the financial fukkery we suffered the first few years of our marriage. Looking back, he honestly could have just thrown up the deuces and went about his way. Unfortunately, we were both ended up paying from my decisions.
The fact that he was even game to not only chuck everything, say lets start over and do this shyt in another country clear across the world made me realize how blessed I was to be with him.
I might get negged for this comment, but, honestly, in our life, we don't know any brehs and sistahs who are just going to do up and even be down to try that even; as someone alluded to earlier in this thread, this seems to be something with white people.
Even in all the time we kept telling our family what our plan was, they thought we were bullshytting until we actually left.
Having that experience with him let me know, at the very least, if I had to get the hell out of dodge to a place where I knew no one, I could do it. The bigger lesson, though, was that I would be okay if I just decided to let all my material shyt go because you can get it all back (if you want it). It's the relationships you have and the lessons you learn that have the true value.

