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OP you sound like you've seen one too many romance movies.

BUT, i'm here to help you. When in doubt, feign a previous connection.

Say "you look familiar, i definitely know you from somewhere"
He'll say no, and but this gives you and easy 'in' to compliment his features.

From there its easy.

Rep me btw, this shyt aint free :feedme:

I could've said: "Thanks has anyone ever told you you look like a cross between Q-Tip and Derrick Rose." :jawalrus:
I'm not quick on my feet :sadcam:
 

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I havn't seen you post in awhile sista :leon:

but to answer your question, you might have to give a certain look ( a face expression) with what you say to let him know your interested :yeshrug:
 

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How long yall been together? :mjpls:

U spent years throwing me in the bushes and u get in a relationship and now u wanna smash? :mjpls:








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marti

u was playing

i legit told you when i was taking leave that i was going to Belize and u coulda went


i been with this gurl over 2 years
although she pissed me off and we broke up
and got right back together

she live with me now



im trying to be good

but i wanna dive in marti


maybe we can just text as friends:mjpls:
would that be wrong?:lupe:
 

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U literally could've said anything.


Don't close a conversation, always leave it open.


By you saying thank you, and not saying anything else, you closed the conversation and he probably felt dumb af.


He's probably on another forum posting how embarrassed he was for waiting for you and complimenting you.
 

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There were a few easy ways to start a conversation that ended in you two going to coffee, or exchanging numbers, he made multiple efforts, and probably felt like anything else was extra. Happens to everyone sometimes. The skill and art of striking up and continuing conversation is like 90% of dating/asking people out. Sometimes it frustrating, as you see some gorgeous woman, dope outfit, walking in the opposite direction, exchange maybe a quick glance, and what else is there to do? In your situation, same general space, both not at work, that's like 40% of the equation, not as ideal as a bar, or a party, or club, where it's expected that everyone's there to meet, but it's better then just straight on the same street at the same time.....So, then it's not about the logistics, but confidence and putting yourself out there, finding something to spark up a conversation.
 

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marti

u was playing

i legit told you when i was taking leave that i was going to Belize and u coulda went


i been with this gurl over 2 years
although she pissed me off and we broke up
and got right back together

she live with me now



im trying to be good

but i wanna dive in marti


maybe we can just text as friends:mjpls:
would that be wrong?:lupe:


I was kinda preoccupied at the time honestly :ld:

Now im free and single but u back on lock down :gucci:


Pm me
 

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I havn't seen you post in awhile sista :leon:

but to answer your question, you might have to give a certain look ( a face expression) with what you say to let him know your interested :yeshrug:

I was smiling the entire time :smugbiden:
 
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Im just speaking from a womans point of view: when a guy i find very attractive approach me, i freeze up and go blank :ld:

A lot of women do this...its natural :manny:

it's hard to say how her smile came off, sometimes a person's interested smile looks like nothing more than a courteous smile so dude was probably like " I tried :francis: :yeshrug: "

But the deer in the headlights look is also a good indicator. That means the wheels are spinning. Which is good news because if a chick don't give af she ain't gonna be thinkin bout what to say she just gonna be tryna to get out of the situation quick lol
 
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