I've thought about that alot. Why do "we" have to dress up ( not that I mind somtimes ), but the white boys will walk around in some damn flip flops, college t-shirt and shorts and have zero problems with females. Yet we probably spend the most on clothes. I dont know how many times I've told my sons mother. Stop buying him expensive clothes, he doesn't care abut them, his friends don't care. Who are you really trying impress...shyt burns me up.
White dudes don't have to have swag to pull a Black woman. His whiteness is valuable enough to make everything else on her list take less precedence.