I've thought about that alot. Why do "we" have to dress up ( not that I mind somtimes ), but the white boys will walk around in some damn flip flops, college t-shirt and shorts and have zero problems with females. Yet we probably spend the most on clothes. I dont know how many times I've told my sons mother. Stop buying him expensive clothes, he doesn't care abut them, his friends don't care. Who are you really trying impress...shyt burns me up.
White dudes don't have to have swag to pull a Black woman. His whiteness is valuable enough to make everything else on her list take less precedence.





I hope that by the time he's 18, 19, he'll be thinking way past how I was at his age. I talk to him about Silicon Valley and tech start-ups alot but seeing that I studied Econ in college, I can speak more confidently about finance and business.
Wealth creation 



Whenever I hear "swag", that shyt makes me cringe. Men from other groups wage economic warfare on us on the regular by setting up businesses to extract wealth from our communities. But, we got swag.