hold this L.
More Young Adults Live With Parents Than Not—for the First Time in 130 Years
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hold this L.
you're not wrong with this, told my fam im moving to houston or atlanta after i graduate and they gave the side eye
they really expect to be with them once i get this degree
what did you major in college? dead ass becuase if you say some shyt like business, finance, or economics, and you spewing this bullshyt im gonna say all your professors failed you
you saying hold this l ok, but explain to me why all those groups are way ahead of us thenHold this izzzllllllllleeeeee...
. motherfukker talm about hold this L, nikka you can hold these nuts for all i care (pause)wallahi some of you think this is a game
you saying hold this l ok, but explain to me why all those groups are way ahead of us then
wallahi some of you think this is a game
nikka I just got promoted, $14k a year wit stock options..u nikkas ain't seeing me....BLLLLLAAAAAAT BLOOD CLOT
Bought my crib 2 years ago, but I told the kids they never have to leave as long as they are productive. I thought moving out was a thing that you were suppose to do when I was 18, that shyt is for the birds until you are really ready.
i got offered an engineering job, starting salary is 70k.
give me 5 years and i'll surpass you
beenz
Rap Guerilla
me and my sister graduated college in the early 2000's. we have been out my parents crib for well over a decade. my brother finished college in 2011. that nikka been on his own since then himself.
my parents happy as hell. they both retired, and got all they kids out the crib and self sufficient.
me and my siblings have NEVER had to move back home after leaving
my parents happy as hell. they both retired, and got all they kids out the crib and self sufficient.
me and my siblings have NEVER had to move back home after leaving
I'll give u this; living w my Dad (for 3 mths this yr) whove been easier if he was married.. Atleast id b able to sic his wife on him when acted crazy or he would have to hang w her and leave me alone.Im 29 and still live with my moms and pops
I understand job loss, falling ill or going through a divorce or something, BUT to be 30 plus and NEVER left the house is absurd.
I'm 30 and at home. None of the jobs I've had were even enough for a small apartment.
1. Left work at 23 because I almost had a stroke (2008)
2. Got sick with gallbladder disease in 2010 and had it removed in 2011. Still recovering today gastric wise and other health ailments
3. Stepdad's cancer spread in 2011 and I had to drive him to MD Anderson weekly while recovering.
4. He passed in 2012 which caused a deep depression.
5. Tried working for my sister's ex from high school and he sexually harassed me and I left after 3 weeks in 2014.
So I've just been working on my health....in and out of different doctor's offices. Now it's just my mom and I at home. My sisters didn't move out until marriage. The oldest one is 48 and she moves back in last year and just moved back out for the 3rd time back in March of this year. When someone struggles they move back in to mom's house. That's how we roll. I'm not quite healthy enough to work long hours yet. I miss working because I want the extra money to work on my music and finally save up more for wrestling school but unfortunately until my health is settled I can't even step in the ring.
No one knows what someone is going through. I've been made fun of for being at home at 30. On top of that mama doesn't drive so me being here is a huge help to mom.
1. Left work at 23 because I almost had a stroke (2008)
2. Got sick with gallbladder disease in 2010 and had it removed in 2011. Still recovering today gastric wise and other health ailments
3. Stepdad's cancer spread in 2011 and I had to drive him to MD Anderson weekly while recovering.
4. He passed in 2012 which caused a deep depression.
5. Tried working for my sister's ex from high school and he sexually harassed me and I left after 3 weeks in 2014.
So I've just been working on my health....in and out of different doctor's offices. Now it's just my mom and I at home. My sisters didn't move out until marriage. The oldest one is 48 and she moves back in last year and just moved back out for the 3rd time back in March of this year. When someone struggles they move back in to mom's house. That's how we roll. I'm not quite healthy enough to work long hours yet. I miss working because I want the extra money to work on my music and finally save up more for wrestling school but unfortunately until my health is settled I can't even step in the ring.
No one knows what someone is going through. I've been made fun of for being at home at 30. On top of that mama doesn't drive so me being here is a huge help to mom.
Columbo
Lieutenant
Im sorry you've had to go through all that, I hope your health gets better soon
The thing is for many, (I'd say most) of these situations, it's a financial imperative, based on poverty, and economic conditions/socioeconomics.....Then, the rest (and many, many overlapping) it's cultural norm, again overlapping with financial reasons.....and, the culturally based (Middle Eastern, Mexican, Italian, etc etc) for many come with insane conditions and rules, in an interdependent family. You don't leave until you get married. They don't offer fukking relationship or game in those cultures, it's sink or swim, so you don't get married, you don't leave.
I have friends that are like 30 year old man children because they have been babied their whole lives. Yeah, they can drive a new BMW and have a family business, but they can't function outside of those roles. These environments don't encourage creative thinking or independence. And in many they don't encourage education or opportunities for woman. They are very strict rule and social norm based cultures. And, yes many with exceptions, but it all comes with a really heavy price. So, it's not to demonize these cultural practices, but they don't need to be glorified either.
I got kicked out of the house for hustling when I was 17-18, and I have never been back....One one side, I don't even have that option, because my Mom's place is smaller then mine, and I don't have a relationship with my Dad. So, I am out here all on my own. Yet, I have more independence, (success in some ways) options, and drive then many who had different, more privliged situations. I have also suffered (where other friends excelled, because they had that platform) due to socioeconomic conditions I was born into, there was no money to buy me a car, or send me to college, or finance my lifestyle while I went to school or found myself, but I made a lot of my own choices to exclude myself from those things as well.
I have friends that are like 30 year old man children because they have been babied their whole lives. Yeah, they can drive a new BMW and have a family business, but they can't function outside of those roles. These environments don't encourage creative thinking or independence. And in many they don't encourage education or opportunities for woman. They are very strict rule and social norm based cultures. And, yes many with exceptions, but it all comes with a really heavy price. So, it's not to demonize these cultural practices, but they don't need to be glorified either.
I got kicked out of the house for hustling when I was 17-18, and I have never been back....One one side, I don't even have that option, because my Mom's place is smaller then mine, and I don't have a relationship with my Dad. So, I am out here all on my own. Yet, I have more independence, (success in some ways) options, and drive then many who had different, more privliged situations. I have also suffered (where other friends excelled, because they had that platform) due to socioeconomic conditions I was born into, there was no money to buy me a car, or send me to college, or finance my lifestyle while I went to school or found myself, but I made a lot of my own choices to exclude myself from those things as well.
