"Most men don't have $1,000 left after paying all of their bills. 100k aint shyt"- Me explaining to my homegirls who say all their dates are BROKE.

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Based on income the majority of these men are over 45, with an even higher concentration over 55.

I’m not sure why that’s not well-recognized. Young, high earning Black men absolutely get play from BW their age - anyone saying otherwise is a goddamn liar.
Can confirm.

I'm in my 30s and make over $100k now. Made $50k to 70k in my 20s and always had dates with sistas and pawgs.

Latinas were almost always married or already had several kids, so they weren't really a consideration.

The income matters but the bills matter more. $90k/yr with little debt and a nice savings/investment portfolio is better than $120k/yr but leveraged to the hilt with CC debt and luxury car loans.

Your circle of friends matters a lot. The people around me were/are mostly high finance, engineers, nurses, doctors etc, so I felt "poor" even though I was doing well as a young breh. Dated a wide variety of women and soon realized that my pool of friends and fam is the exception....especially considering all of us grew up working class and lower middle class.
 

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The concept of Dating for women is something that is foreign to them, because the money doesn’t matter to them, and it was real evident their lack of dating skills in the twitter thread if you had to fukk a chick in 7 days what would you do, most said trickin, I’m like if the avg mf making 42-45 after you pay all your bills how much money you think you got left over ? And boy your feelings gon get hurt after that back to back 300 dollar date and you still ain’t hit.

My final point women will complain about the cost of everything and how they struggle, while fully expecting a man to cover all to a lions share of things solo
 
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The concept of Dating for women is something that is foreign to them, because the money doesn’t matter to them, and it was real evident their lack of dating skills in the twitter thread if you had to fukk a chick in 7 days what would you do, most said trickin, I’m like if the avg mf making 42-45 after you pay all your bills how much money you think you got left over ? And boy your feelings gon get hurt after that back to back 300 dollar date and you still ain’t hit.

My final point women will complain about the cost of everything and how they struggle, while fully expecting a man to cover all to a lions share of things solo

You got a link to that thread?
 

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The concept of Dating for women is something that is foreign to them, because the money doesn’t matter to them, and it was real evident their lack of dating skills in the twitter thread if you had to fukk a chick in 7 days what would you do, most said trickin, I’m like if the avg mf making 42-45 after you pay all your bills how much money you think you got left over ? And boy your feelings gon get hurt after that back to back 300 dollar date and you still ain’t hit.

My final point women will complain about the cost of everything and how they struggle, while fully expecting a man to cover all to a lions share of things solo
Issue is we're all playing by old rules. Everyone should date someone with the same vision as them at this point.
 

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I'm glad you made this personal finance responsibility thread so I don't have to create one on the topic.

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NBA star Antoine Walker blew $108M in career earnings — by wanting to be like Jay-Z, Puff Daddy. 3 key lessons from his plummet into bankruptcy (and his recovery)​



Mon, June 19, 2023 at 1:15 PM EDT·4 min read


NBA star Antoine Walker blew $108M in career earnings — by wanting to be like Jay-Z, Puff Daddy. 3 key lessons from his plummet into bankruptcy (and his recovery)

NBA star Antoine Walker blew $108M in career earnings — by wanting to be like Jay-Z, Puff Daddy. 3 key lessons from his plummet into bankruptcy (and his recovery)

Buckets and big bucks couldn’t keep NBA star Antoine Walker from the bottom. A 12-year professional career earned the star player $108 million in salary — but it only took two years after his playing days ended for Walker to lose everything.
On the “I Am Athlete” podcast, Walker revealed how trying to keep up with the luxe lifestyle romanticized in hip-hop culture by rappers like Jay-Z and Puff Daddy led to his spectacular fall. After years of lavish spending on cars, clothes, gambling and real estate, Walker eventually had to declare bankruptcy in 2010.

Thankfully he’s now back from the brink. Walker has since worked as a TV basketball analyst and a consultant for Edyoucore, a company that focuses on financial literacy for athletes. And he counsels others to take accountability for their monetary decisions, and to consider the advice of professionals — CPAs, lawyers and agents — who can act as checks on those spending impulses.

Here’s what his fall and slow climb back can teach ordinary earners.

Save aggressively​

Walker says he wasn’t used to having money and so as soon as he was flush, he picked up some aggressive spending habits. If you’re dreaming of a lavish lifestyle, it’s important to know the value of saving now and putting that money to work for you.

Starting and maintaining a habit of consistent saving and wise investing will allow compound interest, dividends and capital gains to do the heavy lifting.

But to realize tomorrow’s dreams, you may have to live below your means today. Think about ways to sock away surplus funds into high-yield savings accounts, your employer’s 401(k) or other investment vehicles.

Read more: Shopping without a cash back credit card is just losing money — here's how to make sure you don’t miss out on serious savings

Learn to say no — to friends and yourself​

Walker previously told CNBC he had to learn to say “no.” It’s helpful advice that’s not just for athletes or lottery winners contending with hangers-on. For the rest of us, saying “no” might mean reducing charity contributions or passing on that Friday happy hour with co-workers.

Paying yourself through a savings routine will set you up for both your long-term aspirations and the good charity works one can do with that nest egg down the line. Today’s polite “no” could mean a more valuable “yes” later.

Set a budget, and seek out guidance​

It’s important to create and stick with a budget. Online tools can help, and most will start by asking you to list your income and expenses, including rent or mortgage, utilities, food, transportation and entertainment. Once you’ve accounted for money that can handle unexpected expenses, your monthly financial picture will come into focus and help set your path.

That’s where Walker’s next piece of advice comes into the picture. He suggests that anyone with disposable income should lean into the expertise of trained professionals.

If you have enough surplus funds that might be at risk without professional intervention, consider a certified financial planner who can guide you toward protecting and growing those assets through tax-advantaged investments.


This article provides information only and should not be construed as advice. It is provided without warranty of any kind.

I was reading where dude spent 3-4 million on that girl he was engaged to for TEN YEARS and never married her.
 

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I was reading where dude spent 3-4 million on that girl he was engaged to for TEN YEARS and never married her.
Dude needed a mentor. Old S.I. article.

MARCH 19, 2012

IF ANTOINE WALKER SHIMMIES, BUT IT'S IN BOISE, IS HE REALLY SHIMMYING?​

THE THREE-TIME NBA ALL-STAR SHARES A DISTINCTIVE PIECE OF NBA HISTORY WITH MICHAEL JORDAN. SO HOW DID HE END UP HERE, IN THE REMOTEST OF HOOPS HINTERLANDS?

 

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So basically both these women broke can’t afford the lifestyles they want and basically want a trick pretty much and DC hella expensive houses in the hood going for damn near million last time I checked on Zillow so I’m sure the rent is unbelievable high, not mention just basic life necessities and if you have expensive hobbies because you know most chicks gotta have the weave, nails, eyebrows, latest clothes, most don’t cook so they eating almost everyday, of course traveling they can’t afford and let’s not even get started the cars these women be having probably paying well $700 a month.

A lot of these women need to be realistic you’re not gonna live the IG social media lifestyle there’s so many women are in thousands of dollars a in credit card debt trying to do that.
 
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