DJ Paul's Arm
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If a woman doesn’t cook, clean, be a handywoman around the house, mechanic, stays in shape, make 6 figs, be a full time mom and look beautiful while doing it, they need to step their game up.
and you and me both
i saw brand new condos for 20k usd in the heart of nairobi
we getting screwed royally
A lot of women that call Kendra G and used to call Kevin Samuels ask for 100k like its the defining income that separates the 'haves from the have nots'
They will tell Kendra G that he has to make a minimum of 100K, and then say, "yes he can have kids, he needs to have a car, he needs to have a house, he has to be able to take me traveling, yes I do have 3 kids we are a packaged deal"...by the time he's done with all that he won't have much left to take care of you and your kids and take you traveling.
Completely out of touch with reality.
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Wife is mad cheap/frugal so
And once she retires...I'm out too.
Over the weekend, we reviewed our finances for retirement and uhhh.....looking at the shares of company stock she's gotten over the years (Works for a health insurance company) and her current 401k savings (not even mine)..
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She got like 4x the amount of I have....and i don't even have a shabby amount myself
Social Security will be like play money![]()
point her towards my direction , OP.
I make 70k and still have 3k left after paying my bills .
point her towards my direction , OP.
I make 70k and still have 3k left after paying my bills .
Yeah, this is the part some dudes don’t get.
I spent a lil over $1100 just going out last month. Met a new chick, went on a few dates, watched playoffs games and also chilled with my boys.. I was out every weekend. The last weekend I didn’t really do much.. I hit up a bar with 2 of my boys just shooting the shyt over a few beers and grabbing food.. my bill was about $60 including the tip.. my boy looks over to me and says.. this is a cheap ass night if we had chicks with us that bill would’ve been a lot more than that.. and I’m like yeah you right
Here’s the thing.. most women don’t care and are oblivious to finances and how much shyt costs and the moment you start looking at prices and receipts it becomes a turn off. Keep in mind that they themselves could/would not be going out as much if they had to fund these activities themselves as they would not be able to afford it. But none of that shyt matters… it’s working for them. Had a chick show me her IG of all the pics she took of the spots she been to in Miami after moving here a few months ago. You’d think she was ballin… nah.. she broke as fukk, but she got a homegirl with a crazy ass and they just hit up spots and dudes be trippin themselves to buy them drinks/food.
On another night, left the spot with my boy and we met 2 chicks in the parking lot, chopped it up for a bit, then they wanted to know what the next move was.. keep in mind this is like 5 in the morning.. so we really tryna take them back to the crib.. we told them we knew this other spot open till 8.. they said they were gonna Uber and meet us out there.. cool.. they got there before us.. get to the spot.. every nikka in the spot killing themselves to buy them drinks for no reason and they just kept moving onto the next nikka.. I was just like yeah.. I’m good.. I refuse to do that. I’d rather waste money at the strip club.
If you out here fun dating as a dude, good luck.. I’ll reserve my finances for women that are worth the effort.
The BronxWhere you live?
Most people don't even have $300 as petty cash after paying their bills.$750/week petty cash?![]()
Cook for her.Yeah, living in big city will rip your pocketa going out. Dates are my main pocket killer.