Most modern day men would not be able to handle a virgin woman. Discuss.

[lespaulultra3]

If you show you’re not judgemental, women will slip up, over share & tell you about “how many bodies they have”.

Not the exact number, but you can gauge their hoe-ness based on how they move.

Most women today have a minimum of 15-20

Exactly. Every woman that's told me their body count, I never asked beforehand. It's just like a cheater. My ex would always talk about some nikka at work. When I started to ask her about him, she went underground and stopped talking about it. That's why there is a lot of power in silence. Men need to learn how to shut the fukk up and listen. If you act indifferent, women usually tell you everything you need to know.

 

[Ahadi]

Exactly. Every woman that's told me their body count, I never asked beforehand. It's just like a cheater. My ex would always talk about some nikka at work. When I started to ask her about him, she went underground and stopped talking about it. That's why there is a lot of power in silence.

Men need to learn how to shut the fukk up and listen. If you act indifferent, women usually tell you everything you need to know.

All facts. I still get turned off a bit when they over share, but it just lets me know a two things:

• How to proceed with her
• She’s trying to impress me & let me know she’s good at sex

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Let's start at the bold part. You are implying that a woman who is a virgin is going to be boring in sex the rest of her life? In my 50 years on this planet, every women from hoe to housewife started out as a virgin. Every woman who is sex positive to frigid started out as a Virgin. So how can you make any determination that any particular virgin you come across will perpetually be a "dead fish" in the first place? How in the world do you make that assertion and speak about truth in the same post?

Second, if you are going to say something along the lines of the average person is blah blah blah, then you definitely need to have some data collected to actually back that assertion. If you do not, then it only remains in the realm of your opinion born out of your limited information on the subject. You can't speak on what the average modern man thinks of virgins, because you have not collected any data to even determine what the modern man thinks. The best you have is anecdotal evidence from those you have come in contact with and discussed this issue with. By what you have written in the part I bolded, your whole premise is easily destroyed by the fact that every woman, and I mean every woman, starts out as a virgin.

Also, a woman being a 'dead fish' in the bed can have multiple reasons that have nothing to do with her experience in sex. Could be an indicator of past abuse, could be an indicator of her not feeling you that much, could be an indicator that she is just lazy and use to the man doing all of the work. There are more reasons, and none of them requires the woman to be a recent virgin.

So the original assertion was modern men can not handle a Virgin. A Virgin /= a perpetual boring lay, and every woman you feel are exciting were once a virgin themselves. Everyone was a Virgin at one point in their lives.

So I have to ask you a question back. Do you feel you need a woman turned out by another person before you feel she is worthy enough to be in a serious relationship with you? The way you tried to equate virgin with 'dead fish' seems to suggest that may be the case for you.

I think you misunderstood the premise of this thread as well as my post, which is why you would come to the ridiculous conclusion that I, of all ppl, might want a woman who has been ran through, even when I've stated the exact opposite.

Have a good day, brother

 

[Piff Perkins]

The real problem with the scenario is the idea that Coli men are having sex with anyone.


If dudes here were having sex regularly or success with women, there wouldn't be ten threads on the front page crying about women.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Modern men aren't demanding virgins

Some do. Those who don't, do demand a low body count and immaculate sex.

 

[Hazel Brown]

I think you misunderstood the premise of this thread as well as my post, which is why you would come to the ridiculous conclusion that I, of all ppl, might want a woman who has been ran through, even when I've stated the exact opposite.

Have a good day, brother

He’s always like that, deliberately twists things you say and is very abrasive, just ignore lol.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

@Dance_Like_A_Fiend

I’m a virgin myself, why wouldn’t I be able to “handle” another virgin? We can be awkward together. If I wanted pornstar sex I’d get a prostitute.

 

[Shadow King]

Some do. Those who don't, do demand a low body count and immaculate sex.

Very very few adult men are expecting their adult female counterpart to be a virgin outside of religion.

"Immaculate sex" isn't the demand either. The idea that a woman needs as many bodies as years on Earth or better to be solid in bed is bullshyt.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I think ya'll should admit you want to marry hoes because I can't seem to understand why you get upset over a man wanting a virgin. Like that's his preference, so what.

 

[Uachet]

I think you misunderstood the premise of this thread as well as my post, which is why you would come to the ridiculous conclusion that I, of all ppl, might want a woman who has been ran through, even when I've stated the exact opposite.

Have a good day, brother

What do you think it takes for a woman to feel sexually confident? It takes time, effort, and someone to experiment with. You equated a virgin to being essentially a 'dead fish' or 'boring lay'. I'm pointing out that assertion is false, because all women are virgins at the start. So if you think a virgin woman is not worthy of marriage because she is inexperienced and will perpetually be a 'dead fish' then by your very assertions on that point, you are implying that you need someone else to actually teach her all of that stuff before she comes to you.

The above is what your statements are implying, and I am asking you do you fully realize that is what you are implying with your statements?

 

[Uachet]

He’s always like that, deliberately twists things you say and is very abrasive, just ignore lol.

No body is deliberately twisting what you do. You throw crap and then hide your hands like you are innocent. You created this asinine thread in the first place, based off your original statement in another thread about an African Bride price.

These low value men couldn’t handle a virgin anyway. They will say things like ‘no hymen no diamond’ but put a virgin in front of them and they won’t even believe she is one. Or if they do believe it, they’ll find her weird for never having sex.

Put a virgin in their bed. They won’t know how to handle her having problems with penetration, not enjoying the sex because she’s new, her being sexually frigid and shy, her not being able to throw it back on the D. They laugh when you try to explain vaginismus to them.

These modern day men that demand virgins just talk out of their ass.

You initiated that statement and then decided to make a thread to even generalize it more over modern men. So enough with the BS claims of innocence concerning your intentions for making this thread. You just are upset that someone actually peeps what you are doing.

 

[Pure Water]

There's nothing difficult with dealing with a virgin women before the age of 25. After that, and that women's a virgin either because she so repulsive physically that not even a desperate dude would touch her or she has something seriously wrong with her mental.

 

[Fill Collins]

Not getting married, who cares?

 

[HarlemHottie]

Crazy how prominent the narrative of whores being better than virgins has overtaken things these past couple of decades.

Just imagine how even more backwards narrartives in a couple more decades will be cemented.

Yup. My age cohort is the X/ millennial cusp, so i was a virgin in the late 90s. No one wanted to deal with the drama.

Iirc, the expectation was that I'd require a great deal of emotional shyt they just didn't have the time for. They were in the midst of a period of sport-fukking, not doing the wifey shyt.

Afaik, this was the first group of young men (en masse) to express such a sentiment so openly. The women responded in kind, naturally, and here we are.

(Before you get started, bc I know how you do, I'm not saying these young, HS aged boys, came up with the idea themselves. The larger cultural milieu had been set by our parents, we just took it to it's natural conclusion.)

 

[Uachet]

Yup. My age cohort is the X/ millennial cusp, so i was a virgin in the late 90s. No one wanted to deal with the drama.

Iirc, the expectation was that I'd require a great deal of emotional shyt they just didn't have the time for. They were in the midst of a period of sport-fukking, not doing the wifey shyt.

Afaik, this was the first group of young men (en masse) to express such a sentiment so openly. The women responded in kind, naturally, and here we are.

(Before you get started, bc I know how you do, I'm not saying these young, HS aged boys, came up with the idea themselves. The larger cultural milieu had been set by our parents, we just took it to it's natural conclusion.)

I blame Atlanta rappers for this! I am in love with a stripper fools.

I am being partially facetious, but partially serious too.