Move in with your girl brehs…. Oh wait, that’s me I’m brehs…. AMA / Advice welcome

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:yeshrug: So what. I found out she fukk up on a nikka gives me a reason to get new p*ssy.
I be thinking like this too :wow:

If my chick leaves, just makes it easier for me to single.

She needs me, more than i need her :heh:

If she wants to fukk that up. It's back to a life of normalcy she goes :hubie:
 

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Little shyt that she does that you never noticed before will annoy you. You just gotta learn to deal with it, and vice versa. And yea you gonna need your alone time as well, you don’t always gotta be kickin it together in the same room. It’ll be fun tho breh, good luck :salute:
 

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:yeshrug: So what. I found out she fukk up on a nikka gives me a reason to get new p*ssy.
How are you gonna find out she fukked a random yardman while on a trip in another country? Its not like they will start a relationship and keep intouch over social media afterwards. It would be a one night stand or just a fling for the week. You wouldnt know shyt. :martin:
 

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How are you gonna find out she fukked a random yardman while on a trip in another country? Its not like they will start a relationship and keep intouch over social media afterwards. It would be a one night stand or just a fling for the week. You wouldnt know shyt. :martin:

So why worry about shyt if you don’t know about it. I ain’t stressin I’m just looking forward to her having a good trip and me having the place to myself.
 

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So why worry about shyt if you don’t know about it. I ain’t stressin I’m just looking forward to her having a good trip and me having the place to myself.
Dudes on here view being “cheated” on as cardinal sin and she’d deserve a scarlet letter for it but…having time to yourself weighs more than worrying about what she might do.
 

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Moved in with my girl last year, it's been great. :yeshrug:Both people gotta be contributing to the rent/chores. Also you should make quality time for your self. I still go out and kick it with my homeboys once in awhile.
 
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Hope y'all have a 2 bedroom spot. You gonna need your space away from her from time to time.

Split the chores evenly. Y'all do the same shyt every week.

Agree on the bill split.

Establish boundaries like can she answer your phone, going out together or with homies.

Keep date nights as a thing. People start to slide physically and with their responsibilities to keep the relationship interesting.
Yep. I moved into a townhouse with a chick that had two bedrooms. It had an upstairs too which meant she could have a space and I could too. That definitely was clutch when we were mad at each other lol. This is probably the most important actually
 

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Title says enough, couldn’t dodge it any longer, me and my girl moved into a new spot :francis:

All jokes aside I am excited, but also realize that some things won’t ever be the same, my last place livin solo in the city was :ahh:

Anybody who’s lived w/ their girl gimme advice or things I should know. Also feel free to AMA or throw your jokes my way :sadcam:


u should edit your title ,,, cause it comes off as u moved into her spot
not y’all moved into a new spot …. just saying
 

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Yep. I moved into a townhouse with a chick that had two bedrooms. It had an upstairs too which meant she could have a space and I could too. That definitely was clutch when we were mad at each other lol. This is probably the most important actually

It's the worst when y'all mad at each other and all you got is the bedroom and the living room. Mothafukkaz have to sit in the kitchen or in the car to get away lol...

But in general, sometimes you just need your space even when you're not mad.
 
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