Move in with your girl brehs…. Oh wait, that’s me I’m brehs…. AMA / Advice welcome

[MajesticLion]

1. Growth
2. Entirely too many of you are damn near hostages

 

[Geek Nasty]

My wife reviews my posts on TheColi now.

Expecting a lot of posts now

 

[BigMan]

I think if you go longer than 5 years living together that's when this is when this idea comes into play.



Most definitely.

do you got the link for this ?
thinking of moving in with my girl too

 

[TEKBEATZ]

I remember when my girl moved in with me and automatically lost my medicine cabinet.

 

[Tribal Outkast]

It's the worst when y'all mad at each other and all you got is the bedroom and the living room. Mothafukkaz have to sit in the kitchen or in the car to get away lol...

But in general, sometimes you just need your space even when you're not mad.

This is true. I’m married now and my wife and I are big on space. Me and my ex were always mad at each other so that’s why I made my post lol

 

[semicko82]

Definitely a 2 bedroom 2 bath, need that space.

She’s more organized and clean than I am so that’ll be an interesting thing for me to navigate.

Bill split is 60/40 on rent and 50/50 on bills. I make more than her so I took on a lil more, but I’m blessed she makes good money and she wants to put up her own weight on paying for shyt.




I know mine is, but I think she’s on it too.

 

[Kenyan West]

eventually you gonna get to a point where the sex decreases -- dont trip, you just gotta keep the relationship spicy, sitting on the couch everyday watching zillions of shows like most is slow death to the bedroom
learn to cook if you can't already, aint nothing worse than having your girl tired and you hungrier than a mf
sit in the car for 20 mins before you go in the crib
you need to lock yourself in another room from time to time to have peace to yourself
60/40 split is cool, but work towards increasing your bag so it can be 70/30 comfortably then eventually 80/20
discuss fitness constantly -- let her see you work out in the crib constantly, you cant get complacent ever and neither can she
don't be discouraged when you see your girl make up off, hair messed up, lookin janky and you open ya IG and see mad dimes

if your girl is as chatty about random nonsense like mine, get a good pair of over the head noise canceling headphones while you work
clean the crib, do laundry occasionally, be foldin ya clothes like J Cole dont ever let her act like your mom, tellin you to do chit
maintain communication with ya bish when you out wit ya boys and you comin back in like 2AM
everytime she annoys the f out of you and you yearn for your own crib, think about all the aint shyt bichess out here and count your blessings
don't let her see you gaming your ass off all the time like a dork
don't let arguments and disagreements fester, dead that shyt asap with a stern conversation
plan those vacations to break up the monotony of work to crib, crib to work
dont stop dating, date night or two every week

 

[Jasmine20]

Couples who cohabitate before marriage have a higher rate of divorce. I have no idea why that is . Good luck to you.

I wonder why that is too.

eventually you gonna get to a point where the sex decreases -- dont trip, you just gotta keep the relationship spicy, sitting on the couch everyday watching zillions of shows like most is slow death to the bedroom
learn to cook if you can't already, aint nothing worse than having your girl tired and you hungrier than a mf
sit in the car for 20 mins before you go in the crib
you need to lock yourself in another room from time to time to have peace to yourself
60/40 split is cool, but work towards increasing your bag so it can be 70/30 comfortably then eventually 80/20
discuss fitness constantly -- let her see you work out in the crib constantly, you cant get complacent ever and neither can she
don't be discouraged when you see your girl make up off, hair messed up, lookin janky and you open ya IG and see mad dimes

if your girl is as chatty about random nonsense like mine, get a good pair of over the head noise canceling headphones while you work
clean the crib, do laundry occasionally, be foldin ya clothes like J Cole dont ever let her act like your mom, tellin you to do chit
maintain communication with ya bish when you out wit ya boys and you comin back in like 2AM
everytime she annoys the f out of you and you yearn for your own crib, think about all the aint shyt bichess out here and count your blessings
don't let her see you gaming your ass off all the time like a dork
don't let arguments and disagreements fester, dead that shyt asap with a stern conversation
plan those vacations to break up the monotony of work to crib, crib to work
dont stop dating, date night or two every week

This is amazing advice

 

[Ahadi]

eventually you gonna get to a point where the sex decreases -- dont trip, you just gotta keep the relationship spicy, sitting on the couch everyday watching zillions of shows like most is slow death to the bedroom
learn to cook if you can't already, aint nothing worse than having your girl tired and you hungrier than a mf
sit in the car for 20 mins before you go in the crib
you need to lock yourself in another room from time to time to have peace to yourself
60/40 split is cool, but work towards increasing your bag so it can be 70/30 comfortably then eventually 80/20
discuss fitness constantly -- let her see you work out in the crib constantly, you cant get complacent ever and neither can she
don't be discouraged when you see your girl make up off, hair messed up, lookin janky and you open ya IG and see mad dimes

if your girl is as chatty about random nonsense like mine, get a good pair of over the head noise canceling headphones while you work
clean the crib, do laundry occasionally, be foldin ya clothes like J Cole dont ever let her act like your mom, tellin you to do chit
maintain communication with ya bish when you out wit ya boys and you comin back in like 2AM
everytime she annoys the f out of you and you yearn for your own crib, think about all the aint shyt bichess out here and count your blessings
don't let her see you gaming your ass off all the time like a dork
don't let arguments and disagreements fester, dead that shyt asap with a stern conversation
plan those vacations to break up the monotony of work to crib, crib to work
dont stop dating, date night or two every week

Key



Get off IG

 

[SNG]

Key



Get off IG

I honestly I had to get rid of mine. Because I had mostly all chicks on my IG. If you handsome gang and want a healthy relationship with your lady it’s best to use it minimally or get off that shyt altogether.

 

[Dark Knyght]

I moved in with my girl when covid happened and it's been really good for us and made our relationship much better. My relationship was rocky before the move and I was shook at first but it was a good thing. We have our little squabbles here and there but nothing like i've had in previous relastionships. Our communication is good and that helps alot. She's going away to Jamaica with her girl this week so i'm going to enjoy having the place to myself and miss her at the same time.

Raassclaat!
She pumpum nice.

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

*paragraphs full of solid game*

My man thank you, this is the insight I was looking for. Would rep you if I could

 

[SNG]

Raassclaat!
She pumpum nice.

Batty well nice fi straight backaz how yuh mean.

 

[daemonova]

 

[BuckFilly]

How’s it going?