Move in with your girl brehs....

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Me and my girl of 4 years at the time moved in together. The first few months was cool, all honeymoon experience at first. I'm not discounting the good times at all because there were many good moments. But the bad... she turned our crib into a mix of the lifetime network and waiting to exhale. Come home too late, she thinks I'm cheating. Have a argument over the phone? I'm locked out my own crib for hours banging on the door. Clothes ripped up , computer and television cracked and stepped on. A lot of women don't have hobbies, so every awakening second they feel you must cater to their boredom.

For those saying their women cook and clean for them, get that shyt out your head, this isn't 1960. Cook and clean your own shyt , don't have no women leverage anything on you when it comes to living together. Don't ever think because shes willing to cook and clean for you means she is a keeper, its a trick. fukk that wack shyt.

Oh yea, it doesn't matter if her name isn't on the lease, once she gets mail there and 30+ days she has rights. Worst case scenario, you guys get into a argument and a temporary restraining order is put into place and you are legally kicked out your apt but must still pay the lease while she can live in your spot.

For now, I don't even entertain that living together nonsense. You have your own place and I have my own and we visit each other when we can.
 

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Me and my girl of 4 years at the time moved in together. The first few months was cool, all honeymoon experience at first. I'm not discounting the good times at all because there were many good moments. But the bad... she turned our crib into a mix of the lifetime network and waiting to exhale. Come home too late, she thinks I'm cheating. Have a argument over the phone? I'm locked out my own crib for hours banging on the door. Clothes ripped up , computer and television cracked and stepped on. A lot of women don't have hobbies, so every awakening second they feel you must cater to their boredom.

For those saying their women cook and clean for them, get that shyt out your head, this isn't 1960. Cook and clean your own shyt , don't have no women leverage anything on you when it comes to living together. Don't ever think because shes willing to cook and clean for you means she is a keeper, its a trick. fukk that wack shyt.

Oh yea, it doesn't matter if her name isn't on the lease, once she gets mail there and 30+ days she has rights. Worst case scenario, you guys get into a argument and a temporary restraining order is put into place and you are legally kicked out your apt but must still pay the lease while she can live in your spot.

For now, I don't even entertain that living together nonsense. You have your own place and I have my own and we visit each other when we can.


This is a big part of it. I don't think many women realize they actually don't have a hobby or busy work until they see there man sitting around watching sports, playing video games, on the computer, messing with there car or just straight up chilling.
 

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Me and my girl of 4 years at the time moved in together. The first few months was cool, all honeymoon experience at first. I'm not discounting the good times at all because there were many good moments. But the bad... she turned our crib into a mix of the lifetime network and waiting to exhale. Come home too late, she thinks I'm cheating. Have a argument over the phone? I'm locked out my own crib for hours banging on the door. Clothes ripped up , computer and television cracked and stepped on. A lot of women don't have hobbies, so every awakening second they feel you must cater to their boredom.

For those saying their women cook and clean for them, get that shyt out your head, this isn't 1960. Cook and clean your own shyt , don't have no women leverage anything on you when it comes to living together. Don't ever think because shes willing to cook and clean for you means she is a keeper, its a trick. fukk that wack shyt.

Oh yea, it doesn't matter if her name isn't on the lease, once she gets mail there and 30+ days she has rights. Worst case scenario, you guys get into a argument and a temporary restraining order is put into place and you are legally kicked out your apt but must still pay the lease while she can live in your spot.

For now, I don't even entertain that living together nonsense. You have your own place and I have my own and we visit each other when we can.

One Question

Is she black or is she :mjpls:
 
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2 months after giving up my apt she wants to talk this baby shyt on an every other day basis..putting me in a very precarious position now. But fukk it homelessness>child support

Told her i aint ready for that shyt until at least another 3 years..if thats not enough comprising for you then we at a crossroads and the ball is in your court

Come hand me my L brehs:mjlol:

What a horrible decision:mjlol:

And its only been 2 months :mjlol:

Your girl is lost. She should be requiring marriage before even shacking up with a nig.
 

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I just moved in with my gf for 3 months :yeshrug:

I gave up my boneyard to get everyday/ creative/ wild sex :takedat:


:mjcry:

Now i'm having sex once a week:damn:
Everyday she talking rings, wedding venue who my best man gon be :mjlol:


She asked me what my new year resolution is......



..........I said "New Year New Things"

She said she's proud of me :mjcry:


without realizing I was talking about HER



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Me and my girl of 4 years at the time moved in together. The first few months was cool, all honeymoon experience at first. I'm not discounting the good times at all because there were many good moments. But the bad... she turned our crib into a mix of the lifetime network and waiting to exhale. Come home too late, she thinks I'm cheating. Have a argument over the phone? I'm locked out my own crib for hours banging on the door. Clothes ripped up , computer and television cracked and stepped on. A lot of women don't have hobbies, so every awakening second they feel you must cater to their boredom.

:heh: Playa, you trippin
 

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This is scary...I was thinking about moving my chick in with me...sex every day + good meals and no washing dishes:blessed:

But I do like being able to watch TV without her talking during the show and other little annoying things she does :patrice:

Idk man

Why not check her on it? Let her know if she can't keep quiet and watch the show she's not allowed to watch it with you.
 

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me and my last girl moved in together and broke up in two months. breaking the lease too
 

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Man I loved staying with my girl, for about a month. Then I realized I can't just do what I want to do anymore.


If I want to wake up get on the computer or Xbox 1st thing on a weekend and play for 3 hours. Nope... its problem. Eat a half of box of cereal nope, lay in bed till 11:00 nope... Stay up late and watch a couple tv shows.. nah. Basically anything in her radius that didn't involve her was questionable. I'm that dude that needs to be able to just chill, have his girl right there and her know that even if we not having conversation 24/7 there isn't a problem. Its ok to have silence in the room sometimes.

:dahell: my nikka you mean to tell me you never checked her coming at you like that?

I can't imagine my girl trying to dictate to me what I can or can't do in my free time.
 

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Me and my girl of 4 years at the time moved in together. The first few months was cool, all honeymoon experience at first. I'm not discounting the good times at all because there were many good moments. But the bad... she turned our crib into a mix of the lifetime network and waiting to exhale. Come home too late, she thinks I'm cheating. Have a argument over the phone? I'm locked out my own crib for hours banging on the door. Clothes ripped up , computer and television cracked and stepped on. A lot of women don't have hobbies, so every awakening second they feel you must cater to their boredom.

For those saying their women cook and clean for them, get that shyt out your head, this isn't 1960. Cook and clean your own shyt , don't have no women leverage anything on you when it comes to living together. Don't ever think because shes willing to cook and clean for you means she is a keeper, its a trick. fukk that wack shyt.

Oh yea, it doesn't matter if her name isn't on the lease, once she gets mail there and 30+ days she has rights. Worst case scenario, you guys get into a argument and a temporary restraining order is put into place and you are legally kicked out your apt but must still pay the lease while she can live in your spot.

For now, I don't even entertain that living together nonsense. You have your own place and I have my own and we visit each other when we can.

Lemme guess, she did all that shyt and your ass never slapped fire out the hoe :comeon:
 

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A lot of people here taking L's

Some key things I learned in life touched on in here.

If your gonna get serious with a woman enough to live with...

Make sure you are self sufficient so she knows you can live alone just as comfortably.

Make sure any girl you date seriously has some damn hobbies. You dont wanna be counted on to entertain her every passing moment.
 
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