Moving to a new city has made me realize the value of having a social circle
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It’s funny how we end up talking about the same shyt in a week
It’s funny how we end up talking about the same shyt in a week
Kenny West
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I move around every couple of years. The older I get, the harder it is to get into another social circle. I’m 36, so everybody is pretty much married with kids. I have neither (why I always move for better job opportunities).
I dunno if moving around anymore is tenable any more.
Basically, my last 10 years have been:
Phoenix
Indiana
Chicago
DC
Houston
And prior to that, it was CT, OK, Dallas, NC. In like a 8 year span
I’ve been interviewing with a company in Boston, and I might take the opportunity if the pay is right. It’s a lifestyle
I dunno if moving around anymore is tenable any more.
Basically, my last 10 years have been:
Phoenix
Indiana
Chicago
DC
Houston
And prior to that, it was CT, OK, Dallas, NC. In like a 8 year span
I’ve been interviewing with a company in Boston, and I might take the opportunity if the pay is right. It’s a lifestyle
OP..
What city did you move to?
Also, if you won't cold approach, then are you planning on joining a dating site or dating app? If that doesn't work, have you thought of getting involved in some sort of activity like joining a gym, cultural related events or something else of interest?
How I see it, part of the adventure is to venture out, mingle, make new friends, meet new women where your slate is clean!
The older you get, the smaller your social circle. Best to get some practice in now while you see still relatively young!
What city did you move to?
Also, if you won't cold approach, then are you planning on joining a dating site or dating app? If that doesn't work, have you thought of getting involved in some sort of activity like joining a gym, cultural related events or something else of interest?
How I see it, part of the adventure is to venture out, mingle, make new friends, meet new women where your slate is clean!
The older you get, the smaller your social circle. Best to get some practice in now while you see still relatively young!
No..Money..Mo..Problems
it is what it is
Life ain't always about bagging random women G, get you a hobby or a nice career. Last thing on my mind in a new city would be if women there like me or not.
Naw u just gotta get acclimated bruh...once ur learn the lingo what parts of the area to go to find what ur looking for u will be good...U gotta find out what works in that city...adapt ur game...women always on outta town nagas cuz they think they "different" than the nagas they used to....its something in ur approach that's off...u only gonna figure it out thru trial an error...
Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
Being a single guy in your late 20's is weird.
Or maybe I'm just a weird guy in his late 20's.
No friends and I don't even see how it's possible at my age.
Or maybe I'm just a weird guy in his late 20's.
No friends and I don't even see how it's possible at my age.
I Really Mean It
Veteran
You should be thinking about ways to make money. Everything else will follow. 
I gotta disagree. I make good money, but finding people in my situation (single, no kids), near my age, is getting harder and harder. I don’t party anymore, so I’m not hanging out with younger people. Everybody my age is married with kids. So, I’m kinda out of place.You should be thinking about ways to make money. Everything else will follow.
But, you’re right in that money makes it less worse
Reality
Make your own luck.
Meetup. Rec sports leagues. Work at a large company. If you do all 3 its easy.
ReturnOfJudah
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Was the exact opposite for me. Didnt know anybody here except for my girl. I hit the ground running 
. I guess you moved to a small town and not a major city. Most women love dudes thats not from their area.
. I guess you moved to a small town and not a major city. Most women love dudes thats not from their area.In Houston now?I move around every couple of years. The older I get, the harder it is to get into another social circle. I’m 36, so everybody is pretty much married with kids. I have neither (why I always move for better job opportunities).
I dunno if moving around anymore is tenable any more.
Basically, my last 10 years have been:
Phoenix
Indiana
Chicago
DC
Houston
And prior to that, it was CT, OK, Dallas, NC. In like a 8 year span
I’ve been interviewing with a company in Boston, and I might take the opportunity if the pay is right. It’s a lifestyle
