My advice to men who are ok dealing with a lady who has a child

[UberEatsDriver]

Make sure that child has a great relationship with his father so you aren’t stuck playing step daddy the minute you start talking to her.

The lady I’m speaking to currently has a 12 year old son but his bond with his father is so strong that I forget she even has a child and her son spends more time at his pops house then hers.

I’m 28 reaching 30 eventually so I’m at the stage where women done had kids or got divorced so I can longer just exclude the girls with a child but have be more wise if I end up being in that predicament.

 

[JayBaldacci]

There's women under 30 without kids.

 

[blqbird]

Don't do it. I dated a chick who's baby daddy was in another state and that shyt still didn't work out. Single mothers really are the low-hanging fruit in the dating world (Tell my momma I said sorry. )

 

[InGodWeTrust]

32 with a kid.

My girl has no kids (shes 29)

 

[UberEatsDriver]

There's women under 30 without kids.

That’s not the point. What I’m saying is as you reach 30 and pass 30 a lot of women will get married and then divorced, some will get into relationships and once you reach a certain age the option of dealing with a women who has no kids becomes more limited than when you are 21 , 24, 26 etc.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Btw before anyone comes and ruins this thread with their poor comprehension I want to remind you that this threadis specifically talking to men who have no problem dealing with a woman who has a kid from a prior situation.

This is for the dudes who are ok and have no issues entering a relationship with a woman they like that has a kid already.



To all the brothers who will continue to find love with a women with no kids, keep doing you and much success

 

[AB Ziggy]

There's a solution, don't date under 30. Keep it mid-late 20s.

Case closed.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

There's a solution, don't date under 30. Keep it mid-late 20s.

Case closed.

What happens after 30? Everyone’s situation is different.

 

[JayBaldacci]

That’s not the point. What I’m saying is as you reach 30 and pass 30 a lot of women will get married and then divorced, some will get into relationships and once you reach a certain age the option of dealing with a women who has no kids becomes more limited than when you are 21 , 24, 26 etc.

It's about you're willing to put up with. I personally wouldn't deal with it.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

It's about you're willing to put up with. I personally wouldn't deal with it.

I feel you but I’ve noticed a lot men who find love late end up in these situations. It’s only smart if you do it right.

I’m just happy that girl I’m speaking to doesn’t even live with her kid.

 

[the bossman]

It's so many 30+ single childless women out there. Surprised you see it this way especially as a breh in NY

 

[UberEatsDriver]

It's so many 30+ single childless women out there. Surprised you see it this way especially as a breh in NY

That don’t mean nothing. Men get involved with women with kids all the time.

This is for the men who are ok with it and don’t mind entertaining such relationships.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

So if the kid doesnt have a great relationship with the father, be prepared to play step daddy?

Is this what you are saying?

 

[Sterling Archer]

 

[UberEatsDriver]

So if the kid doesnt have a great relationship with the father, be prepared to play step daddy?

Is this what you are saying?

Depending on you and her mindset it can lead to that.

And yes a great relationship with his or her father is probably less trouble for you.