My advice to men who are ok dealing with a lady who has a child

[UberEatsDriver]

If you plan on being involved with a female long term period with children, depending on the age, and the kids living situation, you will be playing some form of an authoritative figure aka step daddy, if you cohabitate with your woman and she has full custody of the child.

And whats wrong being an positive influence in a childs life when being involved with the mother, if she decides to have you around the child while you are dating?

No diss, you sounding kinda crass about having to be responsible aka a step daddy when you decide to date a woman with children, breh.

edit:

Not really. If I had to I would but knowing his dad does a great job is a luxury. Plus like I said in my post the relationship is so great that he’s more at his fathers house than her house

 

[UberEatsDriver]

28 isn't old b. You could exclude single moms if you wanted to, you just don't see any issues with it. Probably never really did.

Not old but the reality is a lot of young people enter into marriages, long relationships and situations during their 20s.

The African girl I went on a date with the other week said she was so determined to have a baby by 30 that she will be ok with a man leaving her just as long as she can collect his sperm

 

[UberEatsDriver]

If you're going into a relationship with a single mother and you're not prepared to be a step daddy then you shouldn't be dating women with kids.

Everyone’s situation is different so this isn’t 100% true or with every case.

My mom for example didn’t play Step mom with my fathers children since they all lived with their mother.

 

[King Poetic]

Make sure that child has a great relationship with his father so you aren’t stuck playing step daddy the minute you start talking to her.

The lady I’m speaking to currently has a 12 year old son but his bond with his father is so strong that I forget she even has a child and her son spends more time at his pops house then hers.

I’m 28 reaching 30 eventually so I’m at the stage where women done had kids or got divorced so I can longer just exclude the girls with a child but have be more wise if I end up being in that predicament.

My situation, is that I’m dating a woman who’s daughter is 15 and the father is long gone out the picture, but the daughter doesn’t bother me at all cause she’s always doing her homework, school activities or hanging with her cousin..

I’m 36 and not looking to having kids of my own , cause the financial of it all will kill me.. but everyone is different...

My advice is make sure the woman u dating has a career, doesn’t have no communication with the dude and that her kids are not mumbling wannabe rappers or chicken wing wearing Nicki Minaj type

 

[UberEatsDriver]

My situation, is that I’m dating a woman who’s daughter is 15 and the father is long gone out the picture, but the daughter doesn’t bother me at all cause she’s always doing her homework, school activities or hanging with her cousin..

I’m 36 and not looking to having kids of my own , cause the financial of it all will kill me.. but everyone is different...

My advice is make sure the woman u dating has a career, doesn’t have no communication with the dude and that her kids are not mumbling wannabe rappers or chicken wing wearing Nicki Minaj type

Repped. The girl I’m talking to is actually a chemical enegineer and looking to continue school and become an oncologist.

Chick is a super nerd who had a baby with a grown man when she was 14



High school mistakes but no kids since then.

 

[Dolla$]

My advice: get you a young bytch

 

[Dad]

Make sure that child has a great relationship with his father so you aren’t stuck playing step daddy the minute you start talking to her.

The lady I’m speaking to currently has a 12 year old son but his bond with his father is so strong that I forget she even has a child and her son spends more time at his pops house then hers.

I’m 28 reaching 30 eventually so I’m at the stage where women done had kids or got divorced so I can longer just exclude the girls with a child but have be more wise if I end up being in that predicament.

Get with a single mother who’s son is close with their father. So you don’t have to put up with the brat, brehs.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Not old but the reality is a lot of young people enter into marriages, long relationships and situations during their 20s.

The African girl I went on a date with the other week said she was so determined to have a baby by 30 that she will be ok with a man leaving her just as long as she can collect his sperm

I'm 28 too and never have to date women with kids you in NYC so I am puzzled why you said you can't exclude women with kids anymore, keep it real with me b, are you #uglygang?

 

[colicolicoli]

Everyone’s situation is different so this isn’t 100% true or with every case.

My mom for example didn’t play Step mom with my fathers children since they all lived with their mother.

And if the father died tomorrow then what?

 

[twan83]

Make sure that child has a great relationship with his father so you aren’t stuck playing step daddy the minute you start talking to her.

The lady I’m speaking to currently has a 12 year old son but his bond with his father is so strong that I forget she even has a child and her son spends more time at his pops house then hers.

I’m 28 reaching 30 eventually so I’m at the stage where women done had kids or got divorced so I can longer just exclude the girls with a child but have be more wise if I end up being in that predicament.

I disagree my wife baby daddy wasnt really involved when we met. I stepped up became my daughter father. It's been what 9 years now married and he still really ain't involved but yet I have his mom and sister always flying staying down at my house and spending time with all the kids. We talk often on phone too. They both were at first only bout her but fell in love with everyone so they come down for all the kids and his mom love me
It comes down circumstances more or less

 

[Arithmetic]

It's so many 30+ single childless women out there. Surprised you see it this way especially as a breh in NY

That don’t mean nothing. Men get involved with women with kids all the time.

This is for the men who are ok with it and don’t mind entertaining such relationships.

 

[the bossman]

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

I disagree my wife baby daddy wasnt really involved when we met. I stepped up became my daughter father. It's been what 9 years now married and he still really ain't involved but yet I have his mom and sister always flying staying down at my house and spending time with all the kids. We talk often on phone too. They both were at first only bout her but fell in love with everyone so they come down for all the kids and his mom love me
It comes down circumstances more or less

Nothing but respect for this man. You actually sound like my sisters boyfriend.He done raised my niece since she was like 2 and thats her father now. They all been a family for like 12 years now. It's a beautiful thing to see.

 

[twan83]

Nothing but respect for this man. You actually sound like my sisters boyfriend.He done raised my niece since she was like 2 and thats her father now. They all been a family for like 12 years now. It's a beautiful thing to see.

Ya speaking of that I'm my niece and nephew guardian also since there mom not in there lives and my mother in law asked me and my wife to be that for them since we always involved with them
Stepping up to be a parent to someone else kid isnt wrong or stupid like people think and say not my responsibility or I dont want that.
I say to that I rather be a father figure to a kid or kids who need it so when they are older that I set a good example so they can prosper in life.
Whether I'm that to someone I have a family relation thru blood or marriage or some random kid I have no connection at all.
To me it's all the same setting the example and being there for a child who is in need to keep them on the right path is what I strive for so they can end up being a better person than me in the long run

 

[Miggs]

It really just comes down to what you want out of it,if you looking just to fukk i personally dont give a shyt what the kids relationship is with his father...

I was there for the p*ssy and a plate....that other stuff was for them to figure out when i left...