My biggest pet peeve with men

[Guess Who]

What women should realize is a lot of the successful men you'd like to be with probably got rejected countless times by women when they were younger. So now that they're paid, hit the gym, got the teeth fixed, got their wardrobe tweaked and are attracting the same women that wouldn't give them a shot before...these dudes are trying to get their come-uppance so they don't give a fukk about you or your feelings since you never cared before.

It's a vicious cycle. Dudes aren't dumb. I don't blame em one bit.

To add to this, a woman shouldn't expect to be able to bag a tall, handsome, smart, funny, responsible, successful cat unless she is able to bring a lot to the table herself. The fukk do I look like dating a woman who lacks ambition, can't match wits with me, and doesn't demonstrate the traits necessary to effectively running her life or a household?

A lot of these women are entitled and think that because they are attractive, or because they simply have a vagina that they DESERVE a top notch dude. It's fukking delusional. Become a top notch woman and you will start attracting top notch dudes. If you attracting low-class type dudes then you seriously need to take a look in the mirror...you might not be as much of a catch as you think you are. Work on yourself and step your game up.

 

[Will Ross]

To add to this, a woman shouldn't expect to be able to bag a tall, handsome, smart, funny, responsible, successful cat unless she is able to bring a lot to the table herself. The fukk do I look like dating a woman who lacks ambition, can't match wits with me, and doesn't demonstrate the traits necessary to effectively running her life or a household?

A lot of these women are entitled and think that because they are attractive, or because they simply have a vagina that they DESERVE a top notch dude. It's fukking delusional. Become a top notch woman and you will start attracting top notch dudes. If you attracting low-class type dudes then you seriously need to take a look in the mirror...you might be as much of a catch as you think you are. Work on yourself and step your game up.

This and they talk about us.

 

[JLova]

To add to this, a woman shouldn't expect to be able to bag a tall, handsome, smart, funny, responsible, successful cat unless she is able to bring a lot to the table herself. The fukk do I look like dating a woman who lacks ambition, can't match wits with me, and doesn't demonstrate the traits necessary to effectively running her life or a household?

A lot of these women are entitled and think that because they are attractive, or because they simply have a vagina that they DESERVE a top notch dude. It's fukking delusional. Become a top notch woman and you will start attracting top notch dudes. If you attracting low-class type dudes then you seriously need to take a look in the mirror...you might not be as much of a catch as you think you are. Work on yourself and step your game up.

Yea but those women see that same dude wifing up trollops so they feel they think "why not me?".

 

[Guess Who]

Yea but those women see that same dude wifing up trollops so they feel they think "why not me?".

I don't know about you, but no good catch of a man is wifing up trollops...they will fukk them and take them out on the occasional date and have fun with them, but serious relationships? I've never seen it amongst a high quality dude.

 

[intruder]

Are the ones that claim to like you a lot and how much they think you're amazing, cute, ambitious etc etc and a load of other bullshyt to get ur attention and once u give them a chance, they fukk it up and wonder why u ignore their calls and texts!!

At least let me know how much of an awkward/@sshole/dipshyt u are the minute I meet u!

And no I am not talking abt men that try to fukk or anything! I am referring to men that brag about themselves, their exes, how many hoes they have and bytch about stupid shyt like a female all during the first damn date! :dafukc:

Why do I constantly attract these types is beyond me

I'm just going to take a break from men brehs.....

(I'm low key hurt/frustrated as fukk right now )

So you're a female?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

You mean Angela Bassett

i knew vivica didnt sound right

 

[Rawtid]

Do you know what you're looking for in a mate?

 

[KnickstapeCity]

Maybe if you weren't built like Luis Scola you wouldn't have this problem.

 

[PriceisRight]

how long were these top notch dudes fukking with you?

I don't understand the question (seriously)

 

[PriceisRight]

Good question

Peace

The fun rhode scholar mentioned is taking me for my birthday, so we've been friends/moved on/reconnected since 2005.

 

[PriceisRight]

I suffer from general anxiety disorder, insecure, switch jobs more than I switch draws, I tend to second guess myself, am a quitter.

What are you anxious about?
For me, its my career change (ExecutiveAssistant to RN/DNP/Officer). I feel like I wasted years, because I could have gone to school when it was less impacted and could have gotten an ADN for 600.

 

[PriceisRight]

To add to this, a woman shouldn't expect to be able to bag a tall, handsome, smart, funny, responsible, successful cat unless she is able to bring a lot to the table herself. The fukk do I look like dating a woman who lacks ambition, can't match wits with me, and doesn't demonstrate the traits necessary to effectively running her life or a household?.

I concur...

This is why my real man is USDOE - my hustle is school. I attend a uni (BA/Env.Sciences) and a jc (RN/ADN) - tuition-free. I realize at this juncture, I need something that will be fulfilling as well as catapult me to where I need to be, period. The admin game ain't what it was, furthermore, if I am going to be tired/frustrated at night - it better be over some aggravating patients/coworkers, not some fukking damn-long meetings and fukked up lunch orders.

So, @Marty Kaan, do the work on you. It's fun too.

 

[JLova]

I don't know about you, but no good catch of a man is wifing up trollops...they will fukk them and take them out on the occasional date and have fun with them, but serious relationships? I've never seen it amongst a high quality dude.

I don't believe this. You can be a good guy with terrible judge of character or a good guy who likes simple broads.