I never said I was married. Two, I understand the concept I just didn't like the way you described your wife. As a matter of fact, I read your post to a couple of my MALE friends who are married, they said you sounded like a douche.... I'm just being honest. I don't have an issue with being submissive to my boyfriend, but he better not describe me to others as a damn slave or dog WTF?! "I love my wife because she obeys" Uh excuse me?! No!
I'm not arguing with you i'm just saying man... Stop it!
you have to much emotion tied into the actual word and not the real concept, and verbiage of what he is saying.
that is what most females do.
a female assails into being a woman.
when, she that woman has reached the point.
where she will check her emotion.
to listen, first,..then, understand the context and concept of what was said.
do away with emotion as that will be your downfall.
especially when, in a relationship.
how you are,..if you were with your man.
while some altercation, popped off.
where he had to defend you, and he said with emotion, girl run.
then, you reacted to him and the depth and baritone of his voice.
that simple hesitation, to move.
or even worse mouth off, or hesitate.
would, and could be the deciding factor in life or death.
it is a reason a woman is supposed to obey her man.
as real talk, these lesson about male and the female dialectic.
were created over the course of before god talked in stereo.
which mean, close to two thousand years,...
where females were always in complete escalated danger.
in that any male with said female was in complete mortal danger on heightened levels.
you don't understand this.
as we live in a society with a veiled and assumed idea of being civilized.
yet, in the event that those ideas and veil is lifted.
you would need to act accordingly to live and also save the life of your mate.
do away with emotion,..it is a reason these things exist.
plus, why we as a society fail in the dialectic of male and female.
as people politicize everything in the male/female dialectic.
when, they should not be fully politicized.
yet, people with no real actualized lives, or experiences.
do not understand these concepts and do not see the real life events in which they were welled.
i know they exist because i have lost a lot in this life.
i have lost my first love, my career, my best friends..my whole entire set by the time i was eleven.
this life is not a joke and do not take what people have politicized and tried to phase out of existence, as some bullshyt.
art barr
