My close friend COMPLAINS 24/7 about his SEXLESS MARRIAGE, but on IG they're in LOVE.

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Tell that nikka to cheat and stop complaining

 

[Mastamimd]

his situation is fukked up but thats just the chance you gotta take in life

the best thing in life is finding someone you really connect with and can raise a family together..and sometimes the shyt dont end up that way, but whats worse is being so scared or so bitter towards relationships on that level that you NEVER even attempt to go that route and choose to die alone..like a lot of coli brehs on here

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Had one like that.

Crazy bytch randomly throws away my socks and moves my wallet and keys "to help me not lose them".

You need to leave anyone that torments you.

You know it

 

[HarlemHottie]

Friend sound like he got low T.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Not even a handjob? Yikes

handjob?? Thats even more disrespectful than nothing. Its supposed to feel like you in the p*ssy, not like you fukking a greasy leather couch

 

[the bossman]

his situation is fukked up but thats just the chance you gotta take in life

the best thing in life is finding someone you really connect with and can raise a family together..and sometimes the shyt dont end up that way, but whats worse is being so scared or so bitter towards relationships on that level that you NEVER even attempt to go that route and choose to die alone..like a lot of coli brehs on here

Thecoli told me if I let my wife go outside the house or let her go to work then she gon cheat on me. Don't let her have a cell phone either

 

[Abstract83]

I would just leave. Whats the point of staying with someone that won't satisfy your needs. You're basically in it for her at this point. Start moving different and that behavior will change. This is why I dont want to get married.

 

[Mike18jj]

One of my mothers closest friends brags on Facebook every time her husband buys her something and uploads pictures telling how happy they are, but in real life her husband doesn’t want to have sex with her (she gained like 80 pounds over the years) and he cheats on her with young girls in their early 20’s. The kids they have are all grown and don’t respect their mother because they see how she doesn’t have a backbone.


Anybody can be happy in pictures

 

[Mr swag]

One of my closest friends calls me everyday complaining about how his wife and kids don't appreciate the things he provides for them. And how he wish he knew me before he got married. I met him in 2007, same year he got married. We were both getting a IT careers moving in the DC area. As the years past we both started getting more money, I had it popping. Girls, house parties, happy hours, etc. He would come out sometimes and resent being married. He told me he married his because of the kids, trying to do the right thing and be a family man. Back then he was the sole provider and his wife rarely cooked or anything. I wasn't totallly GMB back then, but understood the game enough not to get married too early.

Forward to now, almost everyday he's complaining about how bad marriage life is. I try to suggest counseling and trips, nothing seems to help. I would hate to tell a man to leave his family, but it you're unhappy day in, day out for years now. No sex, separate beds, nagging about everything, even the kids treating him like shyt. What other advice can I give him but to leave and enjoy the rest of your life??

why even be married? Looks over already

 

[King Poetic]

Stay engaged and don’t married should be the strategy today for this new era of relationships

 

[Kings County]

, but it you're unhappy day in, day out for years now. No sex, separate beds, nagging about everything, even the kids treating him like shyt.

 

[Micky Mikey]

Why are the kids treating him like shyt?


No matter whats going on between him and the wife NO child should be allowed to disrespect their father.

Amen

 

[Yo Mama]

How old were they when they got married?


I always discourage very young people from getting married. Coz how you think at 21 and 27 is very different.

But when someone is "inlove" you cant tell them anything.

But I will always try and tell them that marriage is both difficult and boring as fck. That initialintense sexual attraction will die down. You will get used to and bored with seeing each other naked. It just gets so os boring....

Tell these singles and youngins the truth about marriage so they wont be shocked/disappointed.

 

[Miss Lucifer's Love]

How old were they when they got married?


I always discourage very young people from getting married. Coz how you think at 21 and 27 is very different.

But when someone is "inlove" you cant tell them anything.

But I will always try and tell them that marriage is both difficult and boring as fck. That initialintense sexual attraction will die down. You will get used to and bored with seeing each other naked. It just gets so os boring....

Tell these singles and youngins the truth about marriage so they wont be shocked/disappointed.

This isn't necessarily true. I got married in my very early 20s and I'm almost 40 now and the attraction/excitement/fun is still there.

The truth is, most people are bad at picking partners and get with people that they are fundamentally incompatible with.

And even compatible people are humans who change and grow and most people don't want to take responsibility for their part in their marriage becoming boring or sexless or whatever nor are they willing to make changes to make thier partner happy so both of y'all are resentful and unfulfilled and now it's marriage's fault

People just need to learn to open their damn mouths and communicate honestly with their damn spouse.

 

[levitate]

Tell him the first step is to get off social media.

He’s comparing his full life to the perfectly curated lives of his peers.