My close friend COMPLAINS 24/7 about his SEXLESS MARRIAGE, but on IG they're in LOVE.

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:dwillhuh: I know a similar couple.

On FB they all booe'd up "King and Queenin it up for clout :scust:" but in reality dude gets no play and is routinely clowned by the wife.

He's got kids from a previous marriage, but the new wifey won't even give the breh a seed :snoop:. Says he don't deserve it whenever he want it :picard:. Now that I think about it :jbhmm:, dude didn't even get any on their wedding night from what I heard....:huhldup:

What the fukk!??
 

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This isn't necessarily true. I got married in my very early 20s and I'm almost 40 now and the attraction/excitement/fun is still there.

The truth is, most people are bad at picking partners and get with people that they are fundamentally incompatible with.

And even compatible people are humans who change and grow and most people don't want to take responsibility for their part in their marriage becoming boring or sexless or whatever nor are they willing to make changes to make thier partner happy so both of y'all are resentful and unfulfilled and now it's marriage's fault :stopitslime:

People just need to learn to open their damn mouths and communicate honestly with their damn spouse.


Getting married early in life before the age of social media is diff to two twenty year olds getting married now.

Majority of people do not have the LUCK to meet let alone marry their soul mate. Or the desire to hold on to them.if they are lucky to get them.

Like I said, twenty+ years ago you didn't have easily accessible social media giving you 24/7 access to all your ex's and new hot men/women. There is like an overload of always available entertainment so much so that anything gets old quick.

Thats why I say us old married folks should give these singles/youngins realistic advice on what marriage is really like. And yes boredom from the same old is a factor.

Money, a fat ass, a persons race/complexion, a pretty face, fame doesn't guarantee a happy marriage...

So with so many easily accessible options I say that people shouldn't get married too young. Enjoy your life/youth (responsibly) then settle for the humdrum of married life a bit latter on.

Thats part of my take on the whole thing.

Also mary a nice person, I am NOT saying marry a @Typical Simp I'm saying marry a nice person, a person who likes and loves you. Not just inlove with you but loves you. Like they look forward to sitting across from you in your respective rocking chairs in the old folks home one day The way you felt about your best friend as a kid before money/loins/society entered your consciousness...
 

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One of my closest friends calls me everyday complaining about how his wife and kids don't appreciate the things he provides for them. And how he wish he knew me before he got married. I met him in 2007, same year he got married. We were both getting a IT careers moving in the DC area. As the years past we both started getting more money, I had it popping. Girls, house parties, happy hours, etc. He would come out sometimes and resent being married. He told me he married his because of the kids, trying to do the right thing and be a family man. Back then he was the sole provider and his wife rarely cooked or anything. I wasn't totallly GMB back then, but understood the game enough not to get married too early.

Forward to now, almost everyday he's complaining about how bad marriage life is. I try to suggest counseling and trips, nothing seems to help. I would hate to tell a man to leave his family, but it you're unhappy day in, day out for years now. No sex, separate beds, nagging about everything, even the kids treating him like shyt. What other advice can I give him but to leave and enjoy the rest of your life??
Are they still together
 

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If he's not going to separate, he might as well find a gf.

What I've always wondered about the men in sexless marriages is how bad do they really want sex. I'm guessing not that much.

A side piece have saved many a marriage....Might as well go raw since they aren't doing anything anyway...
 

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We went to happy hour yesterday at the MGM. Had a blast.

Yea he's still married and complaining. He seems almost content with it, tho he's says it's worst as it's ever been.

Damn what a pathetic ass simp...:mjlol::hhh:
 
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