My Ex's Best Friend Keeps Hitting On Me...

[Mac Brown]

Older menz.


Smart. Caring.

Honestly, one that spends romantic time with me like my current boyfriend does. He doesn't have all the money in the world, but we are very close.


RJ friend is the kids guy who spends money, not time.

Make sense?

How old........



Asking for research purposes.............plus........some of us do have a little change..........

Edit: men with a lot of time on their hands ............ thats a sacrifice you have to make for financial security. You'll learn (hopefully before its to late)

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

How old........



Asking for research purposes.............plus........some of us do have a little change............

My current BAE is 39.

I'm in my mid 20s. He's a great lover.

Head game = FIRE!

 

[Mac Brown]

My current BAE is 39.

I'm in my mid 20s. He's a great lover.

Head game = FIRE!

He a couple of years older than me., but still a nikka that age shouldn't have that much time on his hands!

just saying

 

[Supa cat]

Seem to spend a lot of time at this "hood" bar I ain't judging tho

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

He a couple of years older than me., but still a nikka that age shouldn't have that much time on his hands!

just saying

Huh?

What you mean that much time?


He works, owns a barber shop, works out with me. I go to his shop sometimes and hang out.


Why you hatin!?

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Seem to spend a lot of time at this "hood" bar I ain't judging tho

I'm a hood chick.


I don't deny it.


I am also educated, work, and have no children.


I can do what I want.

 

[The5thLetter]

Hey, it's your favorite Bruhette again.



I need your advice about something....

I used to mess with this guy from my hood, and his friend always used to stare at me. Like this...

He even flirted with me occasionally.


Me and his friend don't mess around anymore, so now he's coming on to me really strong.



He's In my DM on Instagram.

He's Always try's to buy me drinks at the hood bar.

He even made a weird comment to me about having "shower sex", which I found really peculiar, because I had shower sex often with his friend! So I know he told him something!

He sees me and says stuff like...

"You know I want you baby..."

I always laugh him off, but he was really aggressive at the corner store this weekend.

I said....
"what about your friend?"

He said....
"What about him? Yall don't mess around no more, and he knew I always liked you anyways..."






I don't feel comfortable around him, and even though he's cute and has money, I don't trust him!








I think he's up to something.

What YALL think?

By "up to something" do you mean rape or a set up? Cuz very clearly he wants to smash, and since you haven't let him know he stands no chance, he's still trying. You mentioning your ex is not a deterrent for him, it's an obstacle to overcome so yea he prob thinks he can smash. And whether or not you do you can still be labeled as a hoe just off that.

 

[Mac Brown]

Huh?

What you mean that much time?


He works, owns a barber shop, works out with me. I go to his shop sometimes and hang out.


Why you hatin!?

Oh okay no hate.... just checking. Going off of your post.

Us old nikkas use and abuse you youngins....(not me) but if you cool with it then stick with him.

Sounds like a good dude though

 

[Supa cat]

I'm a hood chick.


I don't deny it.


I am also educated, work, and have no children.


I can do what I want.

Calm yourself, never said you couldn't. Carry on tho

 

[Tilesp4p]

So wait...he is "good looking" and "has money" and "gets around"...so its safe to say my man has no problems getting p*ssy...and your saying you have been up front and told him your not gonna give him any correct?? So if thats the case why would he continue to pay for you?? Either your bad as fukk or this is pure duck tales
Gonna need to see pics of OP for further analysis

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

By "up to something" do you mean rape or a set up? Cuz very clearly he wants to smash, and since you haven't let him know he stands no chance, he's still trying. You mentioning your ex is not a deterrent for him, it's an obstacle to overcome so yea he prob thinks he can smash. And whether or not you do you can still be labeled as a hoe just off that.

A nikka will call you a "hoe", because he doesn't approve of your outfit, your make up, the establishment your in.

You can get labeled a hoe just for standing to close to someone else they think is a hoe.


Ignorant men are taking the power out of the word everyday by over using it, and lusting & simping over the woman they label a "hoe", and ignoring good women.



I don't worry about being called that word. You shouldn't either.

Trust me, it won't matter anyways.

 

[iBrowse]

OP is like a dollar store version of @Marty Kaan Marty is better at the trolling

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

So wait...he is "good looking" and "has money" and "gets around"...so its safe to say my man has no problems getting p*ssy...and your saying you have been up front and told him your not gonna give him any correct?? So if thats the case why would he continue to pay for you?? Either your bad as fukk or this is pure duck tales
Gonna need to see pics of OP for further analysis

I'm attractive, and I have s nice body. I have a big booty. It gets me a lot. I won't lie about that.

However, I haven't always been attractive. I used to be a big girl, but I lost the weight.

 

[Jhoon]

Such a lazy thread. The goal isn't to stuff 14 cliches into one story. The goal is to pick an idea and execute it well.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Such a lazy thread. The goal isn't to stuff 14 cliches into one story. The goal is to pick an idea and execute it well.

Goodnight.