my gf wants me to go to a drag show but doesnt like strip clubs , is she a hypocrite ?

PharaohAtem

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She's joking right? She said that to be funny right?

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Not a hypocrite but it shows a casual lqck of respect. My sister couldn't understand why I didn't want to in a bar outside of Harlem.

I say that she couldn't understand. She knew damn well and so does girlfriend. It boils down to them not respecting that you find something uncomfortable and feeling that you should get over it. They're the same type of women who would want you wear pink (assuming you didn't want to) and try on nail polish.
 

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It is your life, do what you desire. If you don't want to go, then don't go. If she does not want to go to the strip club, then don't push her to go either. No need for a debate, unless you think she can convince you into going to do something you have made it clear to her you do not desire to do.

I will say this though. You gain more respect by being able to say no and mean it, than you do giving in to doing something you never were open to doing in the first place. Never allow the prospect of regular sexual access to convince you to participate in activities you emphatically reject doing.
 
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