My girl of 3 years is confused about her feelings.

[Sterling Archer]

So you didn't bother to find out what she was actually feeling, where the feelings stemmed from, etc.?

What's the point of committing to and living with someone if you won't even bother to investigate the root of a problem?

Or, do you know she's cheating and just leaving that out?

That’s like asking why someone cheated on you. It don’t matter fool. Doesn’t matter where it originated from now, it exists. And its existence means you cannot coexist. She should’ve been proactive when she felt there were issues and did that self reflection herself and then brought it to him, not AFTER she let the doubt set in and deteriorate the relationship. Accountability is something you dudes don’t ever hold women to.

 

[PharaohAtem]

 

[Mike809]

Give up on your relationship at the first sign of problems brehs.....

3 years down the drain.

 

[jdubnyce]

We been living together for 16 months, everything was good but she said she confused about her feelings. I told her it's over, she can pack her bags & leave

Excellent move
3 years; 16months basically common law?
She ain't yours and will never be now
Move on the next one
You won

 

[Rell]

Found herself a higher value man.

 

[Commish]

OP..

It is what it is...

Sorry you had to hear ya moment of truth. At least you are willing to help her find a room to live in.

Perhaps in the future you may wanna fall back on living with a GF until you are engaged.

Other than that, I like ya attitude about it. If someone ain't feeling ya, then charge her to the game and keep it pushin'!

Too many women out there for ya to meet!

 

[jdubnyce]

Give up on your relationship at the first sign of problems brehs.....

3 years down the drain.

Seems like she gave up...Whats to be confused about?

Op made the right decision

 

[semicko82]

Found herself a higher value man.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

So you didn't bother to find out what she was actually feeling, where the feelings stemmed from, etc.?

What's the point of committing to and living with someone if you won't even bother to investigate the root of a problem?

Or, do you know she's cheating and just leaving that out?

once a woman says shes confused she's not woman just don't know shyt. what she means is I checked out months ago and I don't know how to tell you I don't want to be with you anymore. OP made the right move to just end it because in her mind it's over anyway. Some women you can talk things out with but most of them at this point it's too late. And before it's too late they don't communicate anyway. I love women I might sound like a women hater but they are emotional and fickle. so if there needs aren't being met they slowly become more withdrawn and don't tell you.

 

[Diondon]

Give up on your relationship at the first sign of problems brehs.....

3 years down the drain.

Seems like there's another man in the picture
and that's a hell of a problem in my book

 

[hatealot]

If your girl started touching you a different way, like grabbing different parts of your arm or legs. She's sizing you up and most likely been physical with a other man.

You will know because it's a different type of touch women do sub consciously.

 

[analog]

Is it worth knowing?

She isnt with the program anymore, why? I dont think it matters

I mean if I've invested 3 years of my life in this woman, then yes I'd want to know.

The OP is leaving out a lot of details, but there could be any number of factors at play that could be fueling her feelings. If I love this woman, I'm putting in the effort to identify and address the issues (outside of infidelity) instead of just letting her walk

 

[DapMeUp!]

That’s like asking why someone cheated on you. It don’t matter fool. Doesn’t matter where it originated from now, it exists. And its existence means you cannot coexist. She should’ve been proactive when she felt there were issues and did that self reflection herself and then brought it to him, not AFTER she let the doubt set in and deteriorate the relationship. Accountability is something you dudes don’t ever hold women to.

Facts.

Once a woman starts moving iffy just move on.
You can't try to logically talk a woman out of the way she feels it doesn't work that way.

 

[International Playa]

OP..

It is what it is...

Sorry you had to hear ya moment of truth. At least you are willing to help her find a room to live in.

Perhaps in the future you may wanna fall back on living with a GF until you are engaged.

Other than that, I like ya attitude about it. If someone ain't feeling ya, then charge her to the game and keep it pushin'!

Too many women out there for ya to meet!

Seems like she gave up...Whats to be confused about?

Op made the right decision

She said she wants to move out so maybe a mixed feelings could be clear, but I told her there is no hope, its done!!!

 

[Hijo de luna]

Andre in Accounting. The dude that was chatting you up at the Christmas party.