My girl says she wants a break

[Malta]

@Malta, sometimes I want to slap the sh*t outta you in when it comes to talking hoops but when it comes to relationships you are 100%.

I don't know if I should dap you or not, you threatening me over hoops!

 

[RoosterCogburn]

Everything was cool, she acted like nothing happened and didn't say anything. So I played it cool but was on the inside. So I finally brought it up and now she spin that shyt on me asking why I want a break, I took my coli brehs advice and said I'm real cool with it, hit were with the shyt felt real good. Then she was agreed with it real quick had me like but then she got sad, teared up a little, shyt hit me hard. Was on the inside. When we left I didn't even get a kiss on the cheek. Had me like I had a chance to correct all this but told her NO


can't believe this thread popped up again, let's this thread die brehs

While in general I agree you shouldnt take advice on a message board, everything these cats told you was pretty much on point. You still pretty young so Ill assume your emotion will tune out a lot of what your being told, but you need to move on. She brought up the idea of a break, and then blamed you for wanting a break She didn't fight you when you said your fine with the idea and didn't show much emotion when the dinner was over. What more do you need to see? People troll in a lot of these threads but there's no reason that so many cats in this thread would just make ish up and give you bogus advice, especially when everyone's telling you the same thing cause it happens all the time. The bottom line is she wanted to break up with you but didn't have the heart to say it outright because it would have been out of the blue. You'll feel salty for the next minute but you'll live and move on. Its too hard to see right now but a lot of cats here helped you to do yourself a HUGE favor. You'll be aight young homie

 

[Ashley Banks]

Don't listen breh. There's a reason all females dapped this post

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electric_fur

Now's not the time to be politically correct. I never wanted a break from any woman I was serious about. If she wants one then she's not as serious about it as you are. Doesn't make her a villain, but don't play yourself either.

So you guys don't want a female opinion on why a female would want a break from a relationship? weird. I've gone through this, recently actually. I didn't cheat, I barely even talked to my family during that time (only my mom and dad). I just needed to be alone because a lot was happening in my life and I didn't want to deal with other people at the time.

 

[MikelArteta]

So you guys don't want a female opinion on why a female would want a break from a relationship? weird. I've gone through this, recently actually. I didn't cheat, I barely even talked to my family during that time (only my mom and dad). I just needed to be alone because a lot was happening and I didn't want to deal with other people at the time.

lol at taking females advice on relationship


"she cheated on me it hurts alot what should i do":

female "follow your heart if you love her forgive her and give it another try, i know when i cheated in the past i still loved my bf and wanted him to forgive me"

 

[Ashley Banks]

lol at taking females advice on relationship


"she cheated on me it hurts alot what should i do":

female "follow your heart if you love her forgive her and give it another try, i know when i cheated in the past i still loved my bf and wanted him to forgive me"

I wouldn't tell a dude (or female) to stay with someone that cheated on them. That's stupid.

 

[rapdonttweet]

I don't know why you TLR dudes are so fukking obsessed with the thought of women cheating. How can you be so sure that his lady is cheating when yall never met her? OP you got to take the advice you getting from these scorned nikkas yelling "you share that girl" every chance they get with a grain of salt b/c they most likely still got their soul burning from a previous relationship.

You know your chick best. By now you should have a third eye about her behavior when you're not looking. If you don't trust her anymore, then end it b/c you'll most likely never fully regain that trust and that will lead to a lot of problems down the line. There is also a very good chance nothing mischievous is going on. This could be a case where your woman was talking to one of her girlfriends and heard about all the great things their boyfriends were doing and she compared it to your bum ass living life with no plan. I didn't read the whole thread but if your chick is in medical school then she is around successful, passionate, driven people all day....if you're not handling your business then she will wander. Maybe not physically yet, but mentally.

That's the thing. A lot of guys are fairly ignorant about their girlfriend and haven't developed this third eye you are talking about. It takes being scorned to start paying attention to the signs and learn how to understand female behavior. So yeah the advice on here is valid.

 

[ThaBoyBam]

Congratulations

 

[Grand Eeezus Maxwell]

Cancel that bytch. You can buy another one.

 

[Blackout]

Dump her ass.

Or

Don't take her seriously no more and treat her like a side ho since she wanna act like one while looking for a replacement.

 

[feelosofer]

Typically when a girl asks to take a break, your relationship has one foot in the grave and one on the banana peel. Based on what she said, she does not see a long term future with you. She's cool with you as a boyfriend but doesn't see it going past that and will want to move in a different direction in the future. I wouldn't say dump her, but just take it for what it is. Oh man after reading through this thread, she was a doctor and you've been together for 2 years She is looking to upgrade but hasn't found someone, you gave her the out. Better luck net time.

 

[Da King]

my boy saw her last night and people were asking her if we were still together, he said she was telling people kinda





mods: lock this thread up

 

[karim]

@PublicEnemies it might be a chance to save the relationship breh, she might want you to fight for her, shoulda kept it 100 with her on how u feel

she might want him to fight for her? as in, she tells him some bullshyt that hurts him and makes him feel miserable so that he starts humiliating himself in front of her so she can feel better about her insecure ass?

if she doesn't want to end the relationship, let her do the fighting, she is the one who hurt him, not the other way around.

 

[Malta]

my boy saw her last night and people were asking her if we were still together, he said she was telling people kinda





mods: lock this thread up

 

[360dagod]

as a fellow spurs fan....

Its over my nikka...

You deserve better...

Stop letting her have leverage...

End that shyt and tell her to delete your number...

 

[Obama Era Survivor]

nikkas love making shyt complicated