My girl says she wants a break

[karim]

I see you point but she really got no time for dudes unless she getting dikked down in the hospital


shyt doesn't make sense, but I'm just going to keep it moving and see what happens. It didn't really feel like it was over for some reason. But I'm not going to contact her

listen, all this cheating talk is just insecurity from these guys. but the advice on the game playing is on point.

she talked to you about wanting a break and made you insecure about the state of your relationship. than she acted as if nothing had happened. if you hadn't brought the break thing up, you would have been left wondering what the state of your relationship actually is. it became evident that she was playing games when she tried to act as if you were the one who asked for a break. otherwise she would have aknowledged that she was the one who started this shyt. she could have had a serious talk about it with you and at the end you would have known where you're at with her. but she didn't do that. when she cried she either realized that she messed up or tried to guilt trip you.

now all you can do is not contact her and see if she comes back. if she does, you need to think about whether or not you want to take somebody back who is trying to play with your emotions.

 

[HALLOWEEN]

The only hand you have in this game is to be the 1st to cut communication ...no matter how much it hurts u can't show her change ur number or stop taking her calls de-friend her even if u ain't ready to move on make moves that indicate u are......if u want her back she'll see the finalization after she is "cut" and make attempts to contact u....

If u sit there and beg or plead to get her back she has all the leverage and will string u along while she does her and there ain't no guarantee she will be back .....once the female losses the fear of u walkin away forever it's a wrap the only way to reinstall that fear is to show her u can move on at a moments notice like its nothing even if it is .....just the way the game is bruh

Listen to this man.

Cut her off breh. If you get lonely or feel weak come post in here

 

[concise]

my boy saw her last night and people were asking her if we were still together, he said she was telling people kinda





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That's cool, because you still have a shot, but you know you still need to confront this:

She going to be an MD in one year

I'll be in med school this fall, right I'm working just to pay school loans


I'd look real once her salary kicks in

She's been mentioning marriage a lot because her bytch ass friends getting engaged left and right. My boy getting married and she ask me if that makes me want to marry, I hit with the


I'm barely 26, too young to be married, fukk is wrong with these women

I don't mind committing long term, just need her ass to wait a couple years before doing so

Until you address this,

 

[Da King]

Until you address this,

it's been addressed breh, told her to wait, she says ok then we have the same discussion a week later

 

[concise]

it's been addressed breh, told her to wait, she says ok then we have the same discussion a week later

breh,

Spoiler

you're right, we might as well close this

 

[Da King]

breh,

Spoiler

you're right, we might as well close this

lock it up breh

 

[winb83]

I don't know why you TLR dudes are so fukking obsessed with the thought of women cheating. How can you be so sure that his lady is cheating when yall never met her? OP you got to take the advice you getting from these scorned nikkas yelling "you share that girl" every chance they get with a grain of salt b/c they most likely still got their soul burning from a previous relationship.

you should understand that a woman will date you and keep you around solely for the point of using you to fill needs in her life and not because she actually likes you or cares about you. typically at some point when that man outlives his usefulness to her he's tossed aside.

it goes back to Briffault's law

“The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”

when you outlive your usefulness to a woman it's a wrap.

 

[FaTaL]

 

[semtex]

my boy saw her last night and people were asking her if we were still together, he said she was telling people kinda


telling people kinda

telling people kinda

KINDA





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Run away and don't look back.

 

[///Vega+++]

PE save yourself some headaches and ignore her ass for a good week
if she really wants to come back you gotta make her apologize for the shyt she put you through and make her promise to not ever do it again

 

[True Blue Moon]

So you guys don't want a female opinion on why a female would want a break from a relationship? weird. I've gone through this, recently actually. I didn't cheat, I barely even talked to my family during that time (only my mom and dad). I just needed to be alone because a lot was happening in my life and I didn't want to deal with other people at the time.

No, because we think differently than ya'll. If he wants to ride the roller coaster of her emotions while she works things out, then sure, he should tag along and wait for her. But if he wants to not go crazy and bounce along to whatever she happens to be feeling today, he needs a clean break to let her work out whatever she has to.

Cuz when a woman is in her feelings like that, there's absolutely nothing he can do to persuade her or make it better. I had to learn a long time ago to stop trying to be Superman in a relationship, because as much advice or talks I can provide, a woman's feelings are her feelings.

I wouldn't advise him to stick around while she works through her shyt any more than I would advise you stick around with a dude who wants a "break" to see how many women he can fukk before coming back to be your lovable boyfriend. The world doesn't stop just cuz one person wants a break. This is his life we're talking about.

 

[True Blue Moon]

I don't know why you TLR dudes are so fukking obsessed with the thought of women cheating. How can you be so sure that his lady is cheating when yall never met her? OP you got to take the advice you getting from these scorned nikkas yelling "you share that girl" every chance they get with a grain of salt b/c they most likely still got their soul burning from a previous relationship.

You know your chick best. By now you should have a third eye about her behavior when you're not looking. If you don't trust her anymore, then end it b/c you'll most likely never fully regain that trust and that will lead to a lot of problems down the line. There is also a very good chance nothing mischievous is going on. This could be a case where your woman was talking to one of her girlfriends and heard about all the great things their boyfriends were doing and she compared it to your bum ass living life with no plan. I didn't read the whole thread but if your chick is in medical school then she is around successful, passionate, driven people all day....if you're not handling your business then she will wander. Maybe not physically yet, but mentally.

Breh, fukk cheating, we're talking about life here. Whether she's getting dikked down by the basketball team or is wishy washy about being attracted to him or being with him that day, it's the same thing in my book. It's someone whose loyalty you can't trust.

And like I said, it doesn't make her a villain, it just gives him something to think about. I'm married. Me and my wife argue sometimes, don't see eye to eye all the time, but I know when we're talking about LIFE, and it's time to go into battle, that chick is right beside stabbing nikkas when she runs out of bullets and can't wait to reload and bust more shots at anybody and anything fukking with our union. That's how your woman has to be if you want to sleep good at night.

If you're in a serious relationship with someone who is wishy washy about you or their future with you, other than STDs, the end result is the same as cheating. The dude who made the Dwight Howard comparison hit the nail on the head. OP said they've been talking marriage. Spending your life with someone is no joke. Rather than ride the wave of her emotion, he needs to be thankful that she showed herself to be a hokie pokey one foot in, one foot out ass nikka before any rings were exchanged and names were changed.

This dude is about to be a doctor and start his empire. Why would he do that with a cornerstone that isn't solid, for WHATEVER reason.

 

[Hater]

That sucks

 

[raidersreceiver]

sorry breh these hoes is heartless b

 

[True Blue Moon]

she might want him to fight for her? as in, she tells him some bullshyt that hurts him and makes him feel miserable so that he starts humiliating himself in front of her so she can feel better about her insecure ass?

if she doesn't want to end the relationship, let her do the fighting, she is the one who hurt him, not the other way around.

Exactly. It's like if I run a business and tell my business partner I'm done. And then the next day I'm like "nikka give me five good reasons why I should do business with yo ass "

You already bounced on me, now you want me to do the work to restart the business