My Girlfriend Committed Suicide

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Dude, no. Trust me. Better now, than 3, 4 years later (like myself after the death of my younger brother.

No one can force you, but, you should atleast talk to someone who understands your situation and has some personal separation from you and your late ex girlfriend.

I don't "believe" in counseling I talk about it so I think I'll be fine
 

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if true, my condolences breh

but I think shyt like this should be verified first, as much as I would like to think people ain't fukked up enough to make shyt like this up, it happens

@bk @Brooklynzson

I see what yall sayin,but think about how many trolls we gladly oblige,feed and interact with all day on here:mjlol:....is it that hard to just assume the thread is real and say some words of encouragement? But ima assuming op knew jokes was coming and maybe some will make em chuckle and cheer em up:manny:....but based off the jokes ive seen so far it might be too soon and nikkas should chill:whoa:
 

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I don't "believe" in counseling I talk about it so I think I'll be fine
Again, I can't force you.

I didn't either. I had the same issue, too. I still have my apprehensions.

My job "forced" me to take a couple of sessions and didn't like it. I didn't believe someone who is paid by you could give you honest advice.

It took me to get a counselor, for free, 3 years later to respect the process.

Just down go into "Super Man" mode and keep "it" in.

Make sure your reaching out or even just accepting help from others. Just, don't deal with it, alone.

I don't know how serious you can take ppl on thecoli, but, I really feel you.
 

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Why do people share shyt like this with complete strangers though




Breh. Again, he CAME to the sociopaths. Why is he telling people this??? Go mourn with her family and friends or something. People here are either going to think you're trollilng, won't give a fukk, or like me, wondering what the hell you're doing :what: I hate to hear that for the girl, but the OP is being weird as shyt.

It's just another outlet to relieve the pain. I knew that some people would make fun of it but I felt that I needed to let it out for me to heal. The coli is the last to find out coz I have already told all the people that are close to me.
 

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Why do people share shyt like this with complete strangers though




Breh. Again, he CAME to the sociopaths. Why is he telling people this??? Go mourn with her family and friends or something. People here are either going to think you're trollilng, won't give a fukk, or like me, wondering what the hell you're doing :what: I hate to hear that for the girl, but the OP is being weird as shyt.



Sociopaths will always have power as long as people have this mentality. Stop excusing cruel behavior and antagonizing compassionate behavior.




This thread isn't about either of us so I'm not going to argue you about it here.
 

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I'm sure she was a beautiful woman with a loving spirit. I'm sure you saw that in her and loved her for it. My sincere condolences. I have a precious wife. I couldn't even imagine. But real talk, she could hit a bad spell and be susceptible to something like this. Not out of the realm of possibility.

Sad but not all of us can escape our demons. Some of us get caught up. It's nobody's fault. It's a reality of life.

As someone said earlier try your best to keep you chin up and try to live a healthy, prosperous and honorable life. I'm sure she loved you and would want that for you.

Peace to you on your continued journey.
 

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RIP. Sorry to hear bro, I don't know if this quote will make you feel any better but it helped me put the whole suicide thing into perspective, because a lot of people will sit here and think someone who commits suicide is a coward/p*ssy/going to hell blahblahblah

“People pontificate, "Suicide is selfishness." Career churchmen like Pater go a step further and call in a cowardly assault on the living. Oafs argue this specious line for varying reason: to evade fingers of blame, to impress one's audience with one's mental fiber, to vent anger, or just because one lacks the necessary suffering to sympathize. Cowardice is nothing to do with it - suicide takes considerable courage. Japanese have the right idea. No, what's selfish is to demand another to endure an intolerable existence, just to spare families, friends, and enemies a bit of soul-searching.”

continue to love others is all you can do breh.
 

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I think I will be okay just don't know what it will do to my future relationships
So long as you can accept that her death had nothing to do with you, it shouldn't affect them.

Depression is a disease of the mind...like cancer is a disease. Her suicide is a result of her being unable to treat her disease.

Whether you were a part of her life or not, this probably would have been her outcome regardless.
 

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If death affects you, you are a pure bytch. You should also kill yourself you fukking weakling. Disgusting excuse of male. Grow some balls douche.
 
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