Give it a try...
...then dump her the day after she arrives at her new destination. That's the ideal breakup, imo. She's not about to drive 4 hours just to beg and cry.
My girlfriend is moving
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I'm more worried about me cheating, I guess I will give it a try if I meet someone else
Kings County
Law III | Law XXV | Law XV
Give it a try...
...then dump her the day after she arrives at her new destination. That's the ideal breakup, imo. She's not about to drive 4 hours just to beg and cry.
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BlvdBrawler
Superstar
I did it twice with girls who were moving to CA.The day they left:
Me: Bye baby. Call me when you get there so I know you made it safe, ok? I love you.
Her: :inlove:
The day after they left:
Her: Hey baby. I miss you soooo much. When you gonna come out and visit?
Me:
Yeaaaaaa... this isn't working out for me anymore. It's time we went our separate ways.
BellaVenus
FEARLESS
I'm sorry to hear that... But in my honest opinion.. it depends on the two people in the relationship if the long distance thing will work.
I personally know that I would not be able to have a long distance relationship because I like to see my man often & be hugged, kissed and cuddled. I crave affection.
Some women crave constant affection, & some don't mind seeing their man once a week or even once a month or even once a year! I just can't do it! & then there's my high libido
In most cases long distance relationships in which both partners remain 100% faithful don't come by too often. & I'm not gonna tell you to leave her either because I know how much you care for her. The only thing that you can really do is talk to her, try to put things in perspective and honestly look at whether you can really stay strong as a couple through all of the insecurity, paranoia, & temptation that may come.
I personally know that I would not be able to have a long distance relationship because I like to see my man often & be hugged, kissed and cuddled. I crave affection.
Some women crave constant affection, & some don't mind seeing their man once a week or even once a month or even once a year! I just can't do it! & then there's my high libido
In most cases long distance relationships in which both partners remain 100% faithful don't come by too often. & I'm not gonna tell you to leave her either because I know how much you care for her. The only thing that you can really do is talk to her, try to put things in perspective and honestly look at whether you can really stay strong as a couple through all of the insecurity, paranoia, & temptation that may come.
The day they left:
Me: Bye baby. Call me when you get there so I know you made it safe, ok? I love you.
Her: :inlove:
The day after they left:
Her: Hey baby. I miss you soooo much. When you gonna come out and visit?
Me:
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Long distance relationships suck, trust me. It's a LOT of work and as you get older that shyt just isn't cool unless you
a) plan to visit the person regularly
b) have some intention of eventually being in the same place
Not a or b, a & b.
a) plan to visit the person regularly
b) have some intention of eventually being in the same place
Not a or b, a & b.
daboywonder2002
Superstar
why is your girlfriend moving? job related??
If you have a life, then honestly you probably won't miss her as much so you should give it a try. If you're a clingy, no life having ass nikka, just break up with her now because you'll be whining about quality time and shyt like that and the situation will strip you of the little dignity you have left.
JoseLuisGotcha
Aka Allhiphopsux
just be real sit down face to face at least give her that much this is not a phone convo...
and be real and say its not what you signed up for depending on the dynamic you guys can keep in touch but dead the relationship tip cause someone will eventually wonder off then real feelings and egos get hurt...
so sit her down let her know your reasoning and its for the best....she has to respect it she might get mad, upset, cry whatever but after the smoke clears she will respect you cause you did it the right away and at the end of the day its how you live with yourself handling situations at least you will be at peace and she will eventually as well..
so later on down the line if ya'll reconnect she will know you handle your business correct and be more willing to reconcile
and be real and say its not what you signed up for depending on the dynamic you guys can keep in touch but dead the relationship tip cause someone will eventually wonder off then real feelings and egos get hurt...
so sit her down let her know your reasoning and its for the best....she has to respect it she might get mad, upset, cry whatever but after the smoke clears she will respect you cause you did it the right away and at the end of the day its how you live with yourself handling situations at least you will be at peace and she will eventually as well..
so later on down the line if ya'll reconnect she will know you handle your business correct and be more willing to reconcile
She wants to start a business she is talking about a year but if that shyt fails she might be back sooner I think
Scotty Piffin'
killyoself
Having done the long distance deal with an ex who joined the Air Force it really takes a lot to make it work, and if it ain't your thing/don't think it will work it's probably best to save yourself and her the time and disappointment.
Ronnie Lott
#49erGang
Break the relatinship off. You only have been in it for a year. Fucc doin a LDR. Either u u or her will start cheatin. Why go thru the stress. Sit her down, and tell her this ain't gonna work.
if this was a perfect world and people were truly committed to relationships and all of that I'd say give it a try... but more than likely either you or her or both of ya'll are going to 'do you' when it becomes convenient. If she loves you so much and you're all that matters, then she wouldn't be in a rush to up and move. You are a priority behind her job. Trust me, when she gets bored and you're not around and meets some new cat out there, she probably won't turn him down.