My girlfriend is moving

[Chief]

I need to man up and tell her what will happen before she leaves but it hard for me to say no to a woman I like

 

[daboywonder2002]

She wants to start a business she is talking about a year but if that shyt fails she might be back sooner I think

she's moving 4 hours away to start a business?? sounds like she made up her mind for the both of you. doesnt sound like a relationship to me. i think you need to keep your options open and date.

 

[SouthernBelle]

Long distance relationships suck, trust me. It's a LOT of work and as you get older that shyt just isn't cool unless you

a) plan to visit the person regularly
b) have some intention of eventually being in the same place

Not a or b, a & b.

I completely agree. You have to see each other and there has to be a clear end in site. Otherwise, it will be very difficult.