My girlfriend is paranoid that I don't love her

[Vodun]

Op vote with ya feet and bounce this chick man

 

[LadyJ2]

F**k a single mother in the ass, brehs.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

said all that and didn't say she was wrong, didn't say "i actually do love her very much"... talked about dogs, shyt, buttholes, kids, tvs ...everything but your love for her lol

women's intuition

 

[Mowgli]

Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is the answer to every test

Yea. Because of Brazillian Jiujitsu those are the type of questions I'm never asked.

 

[Jaguar93]

 

[☃ ೋ]

You lost me at, "Her son"

 

[Tair]

I was thinking the same. It's the easy way out for both lol

Y'all always jumping to a negative.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

10 year old son who is bad? You already know what you need to do

 

[Collateral]

Get away from the broads that get physically sick from being emotionally unstable. . you might be a savage and don’t care but that shyt escalates. I dealt with a chick that produce those unreasonable scenarios in her head about our relationships and ended up in the hospital…

I've dealt with this earlier this year and last year.

Give her the walking papers. Don't bother trying to fix it you will be wasting your time.

Self esteem is SELF esteem. Some women are never content in relationships when it's boring and only get a thrill when drama is going on.

Trust me.

Constant tests to prove love in the mind of a rabid-minded woman is damn near impossible.

Classic case of low self esteem/used to being mistreated so she automatically thinks it's happening or is going to happen

She will ALWAYS be like this until she works through her issues. You can be the perfect boyfriend but she'll always have doubt in the back of her mind

She's self sabotaging without even knowing it

OP

 

[Jasonmask]

Cut her off now while it’s still easy. When a girl doesn’t feel secure in a relationship ain’t no telling what she a do for your attention

 

[3rdWorld]

its classic projection

Hate to see it..

 

[TripleAgent]

F**k a single mother in the ass, brehs.

 

[Dont@Me]

You lost me at, "Her son"

You lost me at "her"

 

[Caca-faat]

Honestly I think it's a rational concern that a lot of women would inquire about. But it sounds like you have good reasons not to have her over.

If she's getting sick like that it's more likely she is carrying around deep trauma in her heart from getting cheated on in the past. Relationships with people who have that much trust issues require a lot of compromising.

All of this.
Here’s a novel idea OP. COMMUNICATE! If you haven’t told her any of this shyt and brush it off or make up some bullshyt excuse when she asks; of course she’s going to spiral. You’re blaming this woman for creating irrational solutions when it appears you haven’t given her any solid foundation. Make it make sense please?

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

I'm going to be honest.

The girl probably isn't used to being treated kindly and is looking for a way out because the relationship is going smoothly.

There's also the issue of her coming round to your place. If you're serious about this woman, can't you put the dogs out for the night? Instead you're smashing at her place, she is feeling that she's a jump-off. Talk to her and reassure her that's not the case.