My girlfriend is paranoid that I don't love her

[WesCrook]

She's one of those "You don't respond to her texts right away" types

 

[Won Won]

Texted me on Friday morning that she feels we're not progressing because I don't invite her over.

I don't because her apartment is great. She has this crazy idea that I invited my previous women over regularly (I didn't, I'd stay at their houses and smashed).

I have three dogs that don't like her. Her son is 10 and a shythead. He broke the TV that I bought for her in July.

I’m assuming you didn’t actually tell her this?

 

[WaveWhisperer]

I've dealt with this earlier this year and last year.

Give her the walking papers. Don't bother trying to fix it you will be wasting your time.

Self esteem is SELF esteem. Some women are never content in relationships when it's boring and only get a thrill when drama is going on.

Trust me.

These,are actual ,factuals.

Oh boy the stories I have.

 

[WaveWhisperer]

She's one of those "You don't respond to her texts right away" types

 

[Cat piss martini]

I must really be a psychopath like
my family says because aint putting
nobody's happiness before mine.

lady friend: baby that's alot on hotsauce.
me: i like hotsauce.
lady friend: your blood pressure gotta be high.
me: my tolerance is low.
lady friend: huh?
me: youve blown my mood and I no longer appreciate your presences.

 

[Commish]

OP..

Based on what you shared, it seems like your gf's gut feeling is right.

Perhaps you don't love her. *shrugs*

You admitted to cheating on her. You don't invite her over as much as you should, your dogs don't like her and you don't care too much for her son.

Also, you started your post with her texting you about y'alls relationship instead of having a face to face conversation is telling...

So, when are you gonna share you moment of truth about how you really feel about her to your GF in person?

 

[Orange cream shake]

Texted me on Friday morning that she feels we're not progressing because I don't invite her over.

I don't because her apartment is great. She has this crazy idea that I invited my previous women over regularly (I didn't, I'd stay at their houses and smashed).

I have three dogs that don't like her. Her son is 10 and a shythead. He broke the TV that I bought for her in July.

She's cool and I like her, but she draws up these scenarios that don't exist and it affects her to the point where she gets physically sick and can't go to work.

I did get the butthole tho

Stop wasting her time and end it. You don’t like her son. Y’all are never going to progress any further.

 

[Heafcliffe]

I did get the butthole tho

Part had me

 

[analog]

She's been in therapy for three years. I suggested seeing a new counselor because she may have outgrown the current one.

My recommendation for any man dealing with an unstable woman is to look into personality disorders. A lot of girls who have been abused/neglected at a young age develop these disorders and due to them most likely going undiagnosed and untreated become hell to deal with as adults.

There are endless horror stories on Reddit (eg NPD and bpd loved ones). Read through and decide whether to run for the hills, or stick around if you think the amazing sex is worth it (it hardly ever is)

 

[WaveWhisperer]

Its not your job to fix anyone just like its not anyones job to fix you, from experience if you come across someone who had issues let them be and cut ties. They have to want to change for themselves.

 

[Emoryal]

*Our

 

[$cam-U-Well_Jack$on]

Classic case of low self esteem

This is what it really boils down to. That shyt can be extremely exhausting. She needs to get some help or like you said, she'll ALWAYS be like that.

 

[DJSmooth]

My recommendation for any man dealing with an unstable woman is to look into personality disorders. A lot of girls who have been abused/neglected at a young age develop these disorders and due to them most likely going undiagnosed and untreated become hell to deal with as adults.

There are endless horror stories on Reddit (eg NPD and bpd loved ones). Read through and decide whether to run for the hills, or stick around if you think the amazing sex is worth it (it hardly ever is)

These women are bat shyt crazy. She would break out crying during sex. I should have got her checked out by a professional.

 

[3rdWorld]

With a 10 year old in tow
Nah couldnt ever be me..too many red flags. Smash yes, but thats it.

Someone coming with kids is bad enough, but especially when the kids are poorly brought up with zero manners or respect for anything.
Women dont do the neccessary ground work in preparation for long term relationships, raising kids loosely without direction or discipline then expecting the next man to just carry that load

 

[BEN23]

3 dogs ....i know your house stink