My girlfriend lies for seemingly no reason.

[King Kai]

you know what needs to be done op

 

[Fiji Water]

OP..

If you have an issue with your GF lying, then you need to speak to her about it. Ask her why does she lie? Ask her is she going through personal issues?

Lastly, tell her that her lying bothers you and see what she says..

Bottom line..

Address the issue and if you feel that her alleged lying is putting a strain on y'all relationship, then you may need to let her go and move on...

I've addressed her lies and little omissions before and she basically shrugs it off.

When we found out she was pregnant, I told her that I'm down either way. She said she didn't want an abortion. Only to then threaten me with abortions almost daily if I didn't "act right". I work in night life in addition to my day job so it's been rough. It's been a shyt show with the arguments for 4 months.

At this point, I haven't cheated but I have been talking to a few women. I'm also about to be out of town for a couple months for a project and a mini tour.

I'm not happy to say it but I'm basically charging all of it to the game because she isn't a terrible person, just a lying ass bytch. I honestly ain't worried about how any of it plays out as long as my kid is safe. I'm not the first nikka to be in this situation.

 

[Colicat]

I've addressed her lies and little omissions before and she basically shrugs it off.

When we found out she was pregnant, I told her that I'm down either way. She said she didn't want an abortion. Only to then threaten me with abortions almost daily if I didn't "act right". I work in night life in addition to my day job so it's been rough. It's been a shyt show with the arguments for 4 months.

At this point, I haven't cheated but I have been talking to a few women. I'm also about to be out of town for a couple months for a project and a mini tour.

I'm not happy to say it but I'm basically charging all of it to the game because she isn't a terrible person, just a lying ass bytch. I honestly ain't worried about how any of it plays out as long as my kid is safe. I'm not the first nikka to be in this situation.

Are you a stripper? Why are you selecting women like this to be in a 3 year relationship with?

 

[Commish]

I've addressed her lies and little omissions before and she basically shrugs it off.

When we found out she was pregnant, I told her that I'm down either way. She said she didn't want an abortion. Only to then threaten me with abortions almost daily if I didn't "act right". I work in night life in addition to my day job so it's been rough. It's been a shyt show with the arguments for 4 months.

At this point, I haven't cheated but I have been talking to a few women. I'm also about to be out of town for a couple months for a project and a mini tour.

I'm not happy to say it but I'm basically charging all of it to the game because she isn't a terrible person, just a lying ass bytch. I honestly ain't worried about how any of it plays out as long as my kid is safe. I'm not the first nikka to be in this situation.

Well, if she shrugged it off, then she basically told you all you need to know...

She don't care! I suspect she has some maturity issues and really isn't dedicated to having a healthy relationship nor building a family with you.

I don't claim to know the nuances of your situation, but based on what you shared with me, it seems like she really wanted a baby and that's it. If she is already using manipulation tactics against you, then you already know that at some point, y'all will break up. She may be the type to put you on child support and use the child as a pawn like many child minded parents do...

If you gotta go through the ringer with her and the courts concerning custody, child support, etc., then it is what it is!

However, you can move on with your life and handle your business...

I have learned that you can't make someone work with you! That is a personal choice that everyone has to take ownership of and only then can things work out...

Sorry you have to go through this, but it is one of many life lessons you will have to face. I hope things work out for you whether it be with her or not..

Thanks for sharing and stay solid!

Salute!

 

[987654321]

I should add that "we're" four months pregnant. I'm going to get/demand a DNA test but I don't know how or when? I don't want drama.

 

[Fiji Water]

Are you a stripper? Why are you selecting women like this to be in a 3 year relationship with?

I stripped in my early years but I'm almost 35. Nobody wanna see that from me lol. I'm a comedian and campy actor.

 

[Fiji Water]

So, I confronted her about it...

 

[Supa cat]

So, I confronted her about it...

So tell us nikka

 

[MischievousMonkey]

Only to then threaten me with abortions almost daily if I didn't "act right".

she isn't a terrible person

 

[Ineedmoney504]

I'm not a p*ssy lol. Quite contrary. I know better than to be reckless or too invested here.


It's been 3 years or so. Me and her mom get along. Her two other kids are kinda so so with me but we get along, too. The baby daddies are kinda distant but we got no beef.

The kid being mine is the only reason I'm trying to be any kind of rational. Because if I just up and leave, I'll be a villian forever to my kid, you know?

Damn my boy. You came and cuffed a single mother of 2 with 2 kids fathers. Now you the 3rd and have one foot out the door.

Gotta move smarter brotha. But confront her bout the lie and y’all figure why she felt she needed to lie

 

[Fiji Water]

So tell us nikka

They've been having ongoing conversations about going to Olive gardens. And she was embarrassed to tell me because I normally am bougie about restaurants.

 

[Colicat]

They've been having ongoing conversations about going to Olive gardens. And she was embarrassed to tell me because I normally am bougie about restaurants.

That doesn’t sound reasonable. What does you being boogie about restaurants have to do with her forgetting that she told you that she talked to her friend via text and then switched up the story to use her friend as an alibi for a meet up?

 

[skokiaan]

I should add that "we're" four months pregnant

Ur not pregnant nikka

Her two other kids are kinda so so with me but we get along, too. The baby daddies are kinda distant but we got no beef.

Lol

I stripped in my early years but I'm almost 35. Nobody wanna see that from me lol. I'm a comedian and campy actor.

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[RAX 010]

 

[Yo Mama]

Break up with her if you aren't too hung up.

You can't win with liers. Compulsive liers even worse.