My girlfriend lies for seemingly no reason.

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The other day she said her homegirl wanted to go to Olive gardens.

I asked how. She said she mentioned it in a group chat.

Today she randomly brought up the same situation but said she had to decline and leave her friend's house.

Didn't even realize she was caught in a lie, or did she?

shyt just been rubbing me the wrong way.

What's the reason?
 

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People who lie usually do so due to a lack of self confidence and like most things this can be traced back to their childhood. Without becoming aware of the pattern its repeated unconsciously, eternally and invisibly (to them, obvious to others).
 

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People who lie usually do so due to a lack of self confidence and like most things this can be traced back to their childhood. Without becoming aware of the pattern its repeated unconsciously, eternally and invisibly (to them, obvious to others).
facts. and then even when they become aware of it, lets say she really loves you and wants to protect your relationship by telling the truth.. she may start catching herself in a lie, but the behaviors and tactics that she uses to lie aren't going anywhere, ie the manipulation, the gaslighting, the reverse psychology. its a rabbit hole that is better left to her therapist, and if she aint getting one, its bushes.
 

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I should add that "we're" four months pregnant. I'm going to get/demand a DNA test but I don't know how or when? I don't want drama.
Oh man. How well do you know her? How well do you know her family? Babies are a blessing so if the child is yours, I pray for your clarity.
 

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You sound like a p*ssy breh :scust:
I'm not a p*ssy lol. Quite contrary. I know better than to be reckless or too invested here.

Oh man. How well do you know her? How well do you know her family? Babies are a blessing so if the child is yours, I pray for your clarity.
It's been 3 years or so. Me and her mom get along. Her two other kids are kinda so so with me but we get along, too. The baby daddies are kinda distant but we got no beef.

The kid being mine is the only reason I'm trying to be any kind of rational. Because if I just up and leave, I'll be a villian forever to my kid, you know?
 
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