“My girlfriend of 5 years just got over cancer... She just asked for space and I haven’t heard from her in 6 weeks”

[Menna]

Willing to bet it had to do with the wife and her possibly cheating with you. You moving that close must have made him feel insecure that the wife could easily have access

Willing to bet it had to do with the wife and her possibly cheating with you. You moving that close must have made him feel insecure that the wife could easily have access to you.

I get your point. I’ve known the husband 25 years and the wife met me first 15 years ago then my friend her current husband that same week. if there’s no underlying level of trust or understanding then why they ask me to be around help so much for two years. They would want me to stay at their place during my visits but I would get hotel. We all lived together for 6 months in 2014 nothing happened

I don’t even want any relationship with them at this point. I would understand if we all met in 2019 or something but we all go back to high school/college we are mid thirties now. SMH what a waste. They want important help and time from me then have disrespectful insecurities towards me and drop me. I’d do better with strangers

 

[Menna]

This is real. I definitely had to learn this the hard way too but I'm immune to it now. I can just smell when a woman is switching up these days and as soon as it happens, I just act like I don't know her and move on with my life as if she never existed.

I wouldn't even give her dap if I saw her in public. I'd look her in her eyes and act like I didn't even know her.

I just dealt with the emotional gaslighting and crying and making me the bad guy like 4 nights ago. I diffused the situation saying I am just asking if I did anything wrong not saying you did lol… We hugged it out and I left she thinks we good but I plan on never seeing her again I got close enough to peep game and applied just enough pressure to see how she would react, excusing, twisting truth, using things I said against me to justify her actions … weeeeak…she thinks her shyt worked and this is how she thinks she can treat me…These women don’t live in reality you want to be in reality best to let that bytch live just let them live…When you have lost multiple people you love and you know you don’t want a bytch in your life you can hug a bytch let them think they got it and then never deal with them again….Theres this manager at this store I go to ima ask her out…give it time she switches too much then I’m gone the only thing that sucks is when too much time goes by before you see the shyt

 

[NegaDuck]

Not everyone is going to live by your standards.

She spent 5 years using dude as a crutch knowing damn well she didn't want to be with him. There's not a shred of decency in that woman.

Funny story,

I had a male coworker that had a brain tumor for years, and at that time they didn't have to means to remove it safely. His ex was with him for about 10/13 years and once they found a way to safely remove it, he says after he fully recovered from the surgery and was off all the meds, that he didn't love her anymore.

He said that it wasn't like he fell out of love over her, but it was literally just not there period, and they believe that the tumor was in the area of his brain that affects that emotion and once it was removed, so did was the "love".

She was definitely hurt but understood it because both we're kinda nerdy so she understood for the science point of view

Not saying in this case it was the same but it just reminded me of the story.

That said, yeah it sounds cold, but sounds like she settled for him and now she has a new lease on life, fells she doesn't owe him anything (and the hard truth is she doesn't, no one owes anyone anything, except maybe the money he spent and if he did it just to do it, he wouldn't care about getting it back anyway)

#coldworld

 

[Menna]

Funny story,

I had a male coworker that had a brain tumor for years, and at that time they didn't have to means to remove it safely. His ex was with him for about 10/13 years and once they found a way to safely remove it, he says after he fully recovered from the surgery and was off all the meds, that he didn't love her anymore.

He said that it wasn't like he fell out of love over her, but it was literally just not there period, and they believe that the tumor was in the area of his brain that affects that emotion and once it was removed, so did was the "love".

She was definitely hurt but understood it because both we're kinda nerdy so she understood for the science point of view

Not saying in this case it was the same but it just reminded me of the story.

That said, yeah it sounds cold, but sounds like she settled for him and now she has a new lease on life, fells she doesn't owe him anything (and the hard truth is she doesn't, no one owes anyone anything, except maybe the money he spent and if he did it just to do it, he wouldn't care about getting it back anyway)

#coldworld

Nah bro … you can’t get time back and decisions are made based on things said and done. It’s not about owing it’s about not fukking people. There’s a certain way to do things.

If somone nursed me to health and was there for me and I didn’t want to be with them 24/7 after I would not just ghost…I would let them know I got you. I may want to find someone else but I’m here for you when and if you ever need me. The other way is called using ppl and if that’s what goes down ok the word goes round but it’s fukked

 

[Menna]

Nah bro … you can’t get time back and decisions are made based on things said and done. It’s not about owing it’s about not fukking people. There’s a certain way to do things.

If somone nursed me to health and was there for me and I didn’t want to be with them 24/7 after I would not just ghost…I would let them know I got you. I may want to find someone else but I’m here for you when and if you ever need me. The other way is called using ppl and if that’s what goes down ok the word goes round but it’s fukked

I only say this shyt cause I’ve experienced it. I was with a women for 2+ years her moms cancer came back I was there for her with her mom in ICU and carried the coffin she broke up with me a week later on Christmas… that was 10 years ago I still got relationship PTSD from that … I do my thing but in the back of my mind I know people can fukk you even if you do nothing wrong … there’s no ryme or reason but it doesn’t make it ok this nikka gonna be messed up from it…

 

[Pazzy]

Folks really believe these bullshyt reddit stories. Smh.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Folks really believe these bullshyt reddit stories. Smh.

Yea a lot of them are fake lol

 

[Pazzy]

Yea a lot of them are fake lol

The sad part is that nowadays is that these bullshyt reddit stories actually are being reported on certain news platforms for views. Buzzfeed news would do that shyt regularly and they wonder why theyre out of business..