“My girlfriend of 5 years just got over cancer... She just asked for space and I haven’t heard from her in 6 weeks”

[ORDER_66]

Wonder if there was an update on this original guy's story...

 

[RiffRaff]

She had a near death experience and now she’s contemplating her life. Unfortunately it seems like he may not be apart of it anymore which sucks, but at the same he dodged a bullet…

Yep exactly. She had a near death experience and used that time to think about “is this what I really want I could die tomorrow”

I get it tbh, but sucks for him. He needs to move on tho instead of waiting around like a puppy

 

[Apprentice]

Wonder if there was an update on this original guy's story...

The update is these hoes ain’t shyt

Chase a bag

 

[ORDER_66]

The update is these hoes ain’t shyt

Chase a bag

 

[Menna]

I helped my good friend through cancer. Him and his wife asked me for help. Visited them for weeks at a time. Looked after their kids they named me godfather of youngest. I moved 30-40min from them got great deal on a home.

The dynamic completely changed they stopped reaching out to me and stopped inviting me over. I guess the husband was better and out I go…

People ask for and take the help then when they better it’s well I’m good now. There’s no paying homage or anything.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I helped my good friend through cancer. Him and his wife asked me for help. Visited them for weeks at a time. Looked after their kids they named me godfather of youngest. I moved 30-40min from them got great deal on a home.

The dynamic completely changed they stopped reaching out to me and stopped inviting me over. I guess the husband was better and out I go…

People ask for and take the help then when they better it’s well I’m good now. There’s no paying homage or anything.

I know this well. I stay out of reach in real life except for a very small few people. Even family won't get ahold of me. I been the person early in life who would be there for everyone and people just learn to take. Nothing else

 

[Menna]

I know this well. I stay out of reach in real life except for a very small few people. Even family won't get ahold of me. I been the person early in life who would be there for everyone and people just learn to take. Nothing else

Not to highjack the thread too much but I was new in town in the winter and they dropped me, didn't offer much. I had a convo with them a month or two ago about how "did I do something wrong" because the communication from both of you pretty much stopped and I wasn't invited over or anything for like half a year (which was a complete change in dynamic)...Their response was its been very tough for our family the past year. I said I know you asked me for alot of help and Ive been there and then everything stopped. So I thought I did something wrong...They said I didn't so...Thats just who they are...I'll prob never see them again or whatever I don't need it.

 

[Legal]

Yep exactly. She had a near death experience and used that time to think about “is this what I really want I could die tomorrow”

I get it tbh, but sucks for him. He needs to move on tho instead of waiting around like a puppy

Yeah, whoever that guy is gotta take the L and move on. The unfortunate reality is that while they might have had a functioning relationship, she didn't love him the way he assumed she did. It sucks, but when you have to face your own mortality, ESPECIALLY early into your life, it makes you reconsider a whole lot about your life that you might've previously been just fine with. She's got a whole lot to sort out, and if their relationship was at the top of the list for some reason, he really doesn't owe her the time spent waiting around for her to do so.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

bald headed hoe sh¡t

 

[Studious one]

Personally, I would have moved on. Got a low tolerance for disrespectful behavior. I understand battling cancer and wanting space.

Just would prefer some clarity on the status of the relationship. Some people don't get down like that, so the only thing to do is charge the relationship to the game, keep pushing and don't look back.

Maybe the so called BF will figure it out and move accordingly..

*shrugs*

This. You can’t give passes on disrespectful behavior, regardless of circumstance. Hopefully he figures it out, and give himself some grace. he did right by her and, her actions afterward is not a reflection of him.

 

[Studious one]

Women's dating practices are ruthless

In his mind hes being a good partner by dropping everything for her
In her mind hes pathetic loser with no options

Guarantee if he got with a hot healthy bytch she woulda come out of that cancer desperate to compete for him

That’s not a woman thing. That’s a piece of shyt thing.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

The streets will send her back when she ready

If you love something, let it go
If it comes back to you it's yours
If it doesn't, it never was
Hold me down, baby

 

[Studious one]

“The road to hell is paved with good intentions.”

Always. Story of my life

 

[Yas]

Oh well no different than men who cheat on their cancer patients wives he will live.

 

[Studious one]