“My girlfriend of 5 years just got over cancer... She just asked for space and I haven’t heard from her in 6 weeks”

[Dark Knyght]

Best thing to do is act like you don’t give a fukk and move on. If you ever see her in public, give her a dap and keep it moving. Any sign of you reaching out, or asking for closure etc is a sign of weakness on your end and you gonna look foolish for doing it and she won’t respect it any way. Any explanation she would give you, will just leave you more confused and upset.

Women are experts at emotional gaslighting, and any sign of pressure from you will result in her using her trump card of crying on command and making seem like your the bad guy and victimize herself. Take you L, leave it where it is and move on.

 

[King_Kamala61]

Women are complex hunters...they only want what feeds the now...not the later

 

[Menna]

 

[Menna]

From the comments section



I could see how after that. The romance angle is kinda gone. As you're basically a nurse. And you'd rather not see the person who saw you at your very lowest around you.

But have some damn decency and end things.

So these women never wanna get married or be in hospital with husband/bf and have a kid. It’s a long life the lowest point happens a few times. It’s just an excuse on the women’s part she doesn’t want to tell the truth

 

[Thavoiceofthevoiceless]

Breh just think about the “story”.

They’ve been together for FIVE years.

She HAS social media.

She also just had cancer.

He would know her friends and family after that amount of time and after her getting cancer to be able to contact them to get the so called answers he needs. How you with someone for five damn years and don’t know a family member or friend? Come on breh

Yeah it's obvious that you didn't read the story because he clearly states that he's respecting her wishes of not reaching out, which likely means not reaching out to her family and friends as well. If he was going to reach out to her family and friends, then he might as well just reach out to her to get the answer he seeks.

 

[42 Monks]

nasty work

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Best thing to do is act like you don’t give a fukk and move on. If you ever see her in public, give her a dap and keep it moving. Any sign of you reaching out, or asking for closure etc is a sign of weakness on your end and you gonna look foolish for doing it and she won’t respect it any way. Any explanation she would give you, will just leave you more confused and upset.

Women are experts at emotional gaslighting, and any sign of pressure from you will result in her using her trump card of crying on command and making seem like your the bad guy and victimize herself. Take you L, leave it where it is and move on.

Yep. I learned that the hard way in the past. Matter of fact the more you “seek closure” the harder she runs to the new dude.

 

[boogers]

i see why so many posters here are single.

that said, fukk this bytch

 

[broller]

When that cancer comes back though...

 

[J.E.T.S]

Never take a person that’s down bad in life seriously. Health or financially especially.

When they get back right, they’re gonna stunt on ya ass and go get what they really want.

 

[Paper Boi]

can we get a subforum for yall to repost reddit creative writing?

 

[1thouwow]

can we get a subforum for yall to repost reddit creative writing?

No

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

It's crazy cause now everything changing in the dating world and men not being simps anymore and they panicking...

Which is why people are going harder with pushing that bullshyt "looks don't matter" narrative

Because once men know the truth that they are already chosen before opening their mouths, simping ends.

 

[Hey_zeus]

Space is infinite.

 

[The D-List Vet]

It's over.