“My girlfriend of 5 years just got over cancer... She just asked for space and I haven’t heard from her in 6 weeks”

[Deltron]

One of my coworkers said his friend had a bad breakup. The couple was mid 20s, ole girl was pregnant, shyt seemed great. Then she fell in love with a 17yr old and got an abortion.

Always put yourself first. You can't lose.

what the hell did she do for work to fall in love with a 17 year old

 

[The Mad Titan]

 

[FeverPitch2]

On the words of poet Calvin Broadus:
"When bytches get skanless and pull a voodoo
Whatchu gon do? You really don't know."

The moral of this story is to always keep a spare.
Always maintain connections with women, even if those interactions are innocent.
So when a chick cuts you loose, you're not out here lost, having to start over from zero, on dating apps and doing cold hollas.
At very least, your homegirl can hook you up with somebody or beat her ass.
The best way to get over a chick that broke your heart is to start fukking another one immediately.
Then find a good therapist.
I guarantee it like Denzel.

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

I typed a reply but backspaced because everything I was gonna say has been said already. Nice guys always finish last.

I hope breh learns from this.

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

The streets will send her back when she ready

Janet made an anthem for them type of hoes

 

[Piff Perkins]

LMAO

I KNEW IT WOULD
BE SOME INCEL REDDIT
FAN FICTION WHEN
I READ THE THREAD TITLE.



​

This is a relatively common situation though. A man or woman gets sick or is in an accident, incapacitated for x amount of time, their spouse takes on a caretaker role (including all the personal, intimate things that includes such as helping go to the bathroom, bathing, etc)...and when the person returns to health they resent the spouse for taking care of them. It can be embarrassing. Imagine how you'd feel if your girl wiped your ass for a few months. I don't think it's shocking that this ends in heartbreak often.

That's why I already decided if I was in that situation as the caretaker I'd prepare for the end. Meaning I'd definitely take care of my girlfriend if she was in that situation, give her all the love she needs...but I'd be mentally preparing myself for the possibility that she would feel ashamed/resentful/etc and leave me once she returned to health.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

This is fairly straight forward:
1. Delete her number
2. Find a therapist to unpack this with
3. Take at least a one year break from dating. fukk randoms/hire escorts/do whatever you need to do to get that sexual energy out.
4. Spend more time rediscovering your interests given that she was at the forefront of your mind for literally years while you neglected other things and people.
5. Travel around and talk to other people who can add value to your life.

The thing I hate the most about threads like this is that I see posted on reddit or other forums is the number of people who end up either A. Seeing themselves in the a$$hole or B. Thinking they somehow need to justify the a$$hole behavior when its a woman. The end result is the same: They want the angry person to not be angry at the person who hurt him, and in fact try to sympathize or empathize with them.

He has a right to his anger, he has a right to his pain, and it's cruel, inhuman, manipulative and psychotic to try and gaslight him into feeling like he's a jerk for being mad at someone who hurt him. The question is: Yes you're angry and yes you're hurt, but what is that anger and pain doing for you? how can you use or harness it?

Randoms on the internet are not going to give the kind of emotional support that a professional therapist and friends/family who've known you for years will give you. Some of those randoms may be actual pros, but for the most part the best thing any man can do in this situation is to accept that he took an L and move on. Young women do bullshyt like this ALL THE TIME. Which is why I find it sad when I see dudes in their 30s and 40s trying to invest in women in their 20s. In their 20s they are at the peak of their value to the opposite sex(physically) whilst at their most repulsive emotionally. When you're hot shyt and getting attention all the time it turns you into an a$$hole who can't even tell that they're hurting people or who doesn't care because someone(who usually wants something out of you) will just validate you anyway. Women in their 20s can be on some demon time psychopath shyt because they know a simp or admiring female will pop up to defend whatever fukked up thing they want to do.

Its libraries worth of men telling their stories on line every day about a woman in her early 20s and 30s who did them wrong. Everyone think they special until the same thing that happens to millions of men happens to them.

 

[KingFreeman]

Real situation or not, men don't get taught to value themselves first and highest. Most women get taught to do that and the game is all types of backwards.

 

[Dave24]

This is fairly straight forward:
1. Delete her number
2. Find a therapist to unpack this with
3. Take at least a one year break from dating. fukk randoms/hire escorts/do whatever you need to do to get that sexual energy out.
4. Spend more time rediscovering your interests given that she was at the forefront of your mind for literally years while you neglected other things and people.
5. Travel around and talk to other people who can add value to your life.

The thing I hate the most about threads like this is that I see posted on reddit or other forums is the number of people who end up either A. Seeing themselves in the a$$hole or B. Thinking they somehow need to justify the a$$hole behavior when its a woman. The end result is the same: They want the angry person to not be angry at the person who hurt him, and in fact try to sympathize or empathize with them.

He has a right to his anger, he has a right to his pain, and it's cruel, inhuman, manipulative and psychotic to try and gaslight him into feeling like he's a jerk for being mad at someone who hurt him. The question is: Yes you're angry and yes you're hurt, but what is that anger and pain doing for you? how can you use or harness it?

Randoms on the internet are not going to give the kind of emotional support that a professional therapist and friends/family who've known you for years will give you. Some of those randoms may be actual pros, but for the most part the best thing any man can do in this situation is to accept that he took an L and move on. Young women do bullshyt like this ALL THE TIME. Which is why I find it sad when I see dudes in their 30s and 40s trying to invest in women in their 20s. In their 20s they are at the peak of their value to the opposite sex(physically) whilst at their most repulsive emotionally. When you're hot shyt and getting attention all the time it turns you into an a$$hole who can't even tell that they're hurting people or who doesn't care because someone(who usually wants something out of you) will just validate you anyway. Women in their 20s can be on some demon time psychopath shyt because they know a simp or admiring female will pop up to defend whatever fukked up thing they want to do.

Its libraries worth of men telling their stories on line every day about a woman in her early 20s and 30s who did them wrong. Everyone think they special until the same thing that happens to millions of men happens to them.

@Scustin Bieburr at what age are women at their least repulsive emotionally??

 

[levitate]

Getting that p absolutely DRILLED by another dude.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

@Scustin Bieburr at what age are women at their least repulsive emotionally??

Obviously it depends on each person but with the way men have elevated women in their 20s, that's when their egos are the biggest. We are a youth obsessed culture and we hype up people whose brains aren't even finished developing yet. You can shoot an adult video with an 18 year old but that 18 year old can't buy a drink. It's absurd and creates people whose sense of value is predicated on something that can fade and they had little control over to begin with(their looks)

When you're a woman who has been told and has observed how valuable your youth and looks are to society, your mind becomes warped. You develop a sense of anxiety as you approach the age where those things start to go away(30s). That anxiety leads you to making crazy decisions with fallout you aren't prepared to handle. Everyone experiences some form of quarter life crisis but when it hits women you see them doing shyt like this.

A woman who has passed through her quarter life crisis is less likely to do cruel and dramatic shyt because she's been humbled by life and has had time to redefine her value. I could never see myself committing to a woman who is still in that "I'm hot shyt" phase in their life.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Always put yourself first. You can't lose.

She did so why is that a problem?​

 

[Lootha VanDraws]

You wiped my ass when I was down and out baby, now I'm leaving you

 

[Jazzy B.]

Why wouldn’t these type of stories be believable? Posters act like scum shyt like this doesn’t happen on a daily basis.

Breh just think about the “story”.

They’ve been together for FIVE years.

She HAS social media.

She also just had cancer.

He would know her friends and family after that amount of time and after her getting cancer to be able to contact them to get the so called answers he needs. How you with someone for five damn years and don’t know a family member or friend? Come on breh

 

[KidJSoul]

Nilkka are you a simp??? You like it when women fukk you over??? They aint got no kids together why stay friends with a bytch who betrayed you?

simp ass nikka only dude in this thread defending a trifling bytch your deflections aint gonna save you simp doormat nikka...

Fr this is ridiculous

The amount of people letting what she did slide

Let that be a man who leaves and it'd be "typical of men to leave when their wife is sick!" Simps disgust me