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My girlfriend wants to move in together
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Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
@BrothaZay
Dont listen to these lames, the only person who's living your life is you. You're gonna fukk up in life but its always easier to bounce back when you're young. If you move back home at 19-20, its not as frowned upon as coming back at 30+
Having your residence before you can legally buy alcohol is a feeling every man should embrace, the power
If you can handle that responsibility you're gonna notice a lot of improvements in your life.
It forces you to grow the fukk up, you'll always strive for the best because having your own becomes the standard much earlier in life than for most of your peers. That sounds like common sense when you read it, but look around you
First off,...
It ain't motherfukk'n 1996.
Where the cost median and wage median will allow you to be able to do this shyt, feasibly.
To move out,...
You need a paid for car that is not going to breakdown.
You need all the amenities.
You get a crib.
You will not have none of that good shyt, period.
Nor, will you have anything of note.
Except luckily a meal,....if you get that consistently.
Anybody telling you they have it are living an extreme exception, to the fukking rule.
Which is somebody you should not listen to.
Unless they bringing you in where they work at their exact fukking Pay scale and grade.
You need a real career.
That allows you to feasibly bank save at least 1000/month or at the very least 12000/annually
Having a place of your own does not mean you are grown at all.
It means you generally poor as fukk.
This is not the beginning of the internet age.
Where jobs and ingenuity are plentiful.
shyt is real as hell,...
No real as fukk,.....
Also,...
If ya moms is an eic vampire and not really making an issue to have you well put up and educated.
Stay right at the crib till you get well educated.
As she was using you to get somewhere.
So, use ya mom's like she used you...
Art Barr
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Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
My pleasure love
Not only that, when a man and a woman live together, it will more than likely turn into a marriage whether you want it to go there or not. It is the natural order of things.
that ain't no natural order of things.
That is simp ass nikka letting a female prey on him with traditionalism.
Provider is a non-existent term after females were freed in 1968.
Not to mention,..
Marriage laws are about building a corporation.
If ol girl does not have a tax Id, and plans for one with you separately.
That she has pro-actively pitched to you and you see it as a feasible supplement.
To your current tax-id'd business.
fukk all that marriage talk.
Marriage is a corporation.
If a female and male do not have that business accumen.
They should not be getting married.
They are just two people who may enjoy a monogamous lifestyle.
Being monogamous does not warrant a marriage.
Art Barr
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
nikkaz need to stop basing their lives off of what a female in the us is saying.
Cuz,...
Real talk,...most of these females are fukking in general all eic vampires, than a motherfukker.
Do not fall for that bullshyt plan of moving in or shacking up with these eic vampire broads.
It is a long con.
To get you put in jail and them 11k at the least a year.
After they pop out two shawties on your head purposefully.
Do not believe a word these females with no masters or phd and a career are talembout.
shyt is the cs/eic con.
They setting you up to live an all profit free life.
With your freedom and the legacy of your kids freedom in the balance as well.
While, you will be stuck as that dude who just got some p*ssy, and a warrant.
Blacklisted and labeled as a deadbeat.
Regardless if you see ya kids or take care of them or not.
Don't go on that bullshyt.
Black women are fukking capitalist as a general rule and if you fall for that shyt.
They will swag surf all over you,...every tax season.
While, you look like a goofie because of traditionalism.
That only a few know the facts on and can only shake their head at cause you got taken and missappropiately labeled.
Trying to be a nice guy.
fukk that bullshyt,...wear a condom and fukk these vampires.
Do not let them set up on the waves to swag surf on you, Joe.
They will and you will only have at best twenty-eight months of cooch to show for it.
Plus a warrant and no economic feasible way to come up.
Plus no L's to drive, or own a fire arm either.
Which is gon make you desperate and a fukkin criminal in general.
Don't listen to ya homies and Dem bytches, Joe.
Take it from me, fa real.
Art Barr
Cuz,...
Real talk,...most of these females are fukking in general all eic vampires, than a motherfukker.
Do not fall for that bullshyt plan of moving in or shacking up with these eic vampire broads.
It is a long con.
To get you put in jail and them 11k at the least a year.
After they pop out two shawties on your head purposefully.
Do not believe a word these females with no masters or phd and a career are talembout.
shyt is the cs/eic con.
They setting you up to live an all profit free life.
With your freedom and the legacy of your kids freedom in the balance as well.
While, you will be stuck as that dude who just got some p*ssy, and a warrant.
Blacklisted and labeled as a deadbeat.
Regardless if you see ya kids or take care of them or not.
Don't go on that bullshyt.
Black women are fukking capitalist as a general rule and if you fall for that shyt.
They will swag surf all over you,...every tax season.
While, you look like a goofie because of traditionalism.
That only a few know the facts on and can only shake their head at cause you got taken and missappropiately labeled.
Trying to be a nice guy.
fukk that bullshyt,...wear a condom and fukk these vampires.
Do not let them set up on the waves to swag surf on you, Joe.
They will and you will only have at best twenty-eight months of cooch to show for it.
Plus a warrant and no economic feasible way to come up.
Plus no L's to drive, or own a fire arm either.
Which is gon make you desperate and a fukkin criminal in general.
Don't listen to ya homies and Dem bytches, Joe.
Take it from me, fa real.
Art Barr
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
rule: Never pay on shyt in a female's name, ever.
If she wants to move out and get a place.
Tell her you can visit.
If you do visit,..make sure you leave and go back to the crib, damn near every other night and sleep in ya own bed, too.
Art Barr
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INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
you smirk'n,...
One of my many past occupations and the law say otherwise.
Marriage is a corporation.
Not some fantasy playland set, most make it out to be.
Art Barr
former llinois state divorce attorney certification test site manager
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At least mom dukes cared about you and prepared you for life and helped developed you as a person.YOU 18 years old B! You dont have a clue about the real world.I dont care how mature you are. If you move in with your gf...everything will be a honeymoon at first. However Wait until she starts coming up short with rent,wait until the arguments and more then likely she will end up pregnant. At 18 you should be in college,partying (in moderation) and studying.You got rest of your to shack up or even have a gf.Hey do you tho 
I see it as more than a simple business arrangement or corporation as you see it. It has meaning and depth. I understand your stance, but to me it is just a lot more meaningful. Thats all.
naw fam if you move in with a female put the shyt in her name. make her alone legally responsible for it. if your name is on that you're responsible and if her name is on it too you can't really get rid of her.
females love to move in with you then have some emergency and stick you with the bills. her car breaks down or school or some bullshyt.
the beauty of it is you don't gotta pay shyt if its in her name. whatever day you decide you're done you can just dip and leave her with the bill.
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
I see it as more than a simple business arrangement or corporation as you see it. It has meaning and depth. I understand your stance, but to me it is just a lot more meaningful. Thats all.
you are only looking at my post halfway full.
I am not saying you do not have a meaningful connection socially and romantically that is monogamous.
On top of all that,...you need a corporation.
To many people think marriage is just this lovey dovey monogamous union.
It is not,....
It is a business union of two astute successful tax Id'd business minds shared between a man and a woman.
If you can not create a corporation.
Which means schedule meetings.
Sit firm in agreement and compromise.
shyt reach an agreement, that soundly speaks in favor of both parties.
You will fail in marriage anyway.
The reason why the law is made this way.
Is actually one of the few things.
they have gotten accurate in modern law making.
Where it takes into account the freedom of women.
It is just old traditionalism is outdated but still in play, socially.
Where it needs to be phased out.
Where no one bothers to peep how the law is there to actually aid you.
Marriage is fifty/fifty,...
Yet most males damage themselves in marriage.
As they falsely provide 100 percent like females are still slaves era.
Without a tax id.
Plus, the other reason why men lose in marriage.
Is they create children and have no actual profitable business intact.
A job is not a profitable business.
The reason why the government hammers males so bad.
Is this government used to enslave children as well as Asians, blacks women, and native Americans.
Women, native Americans and children all received reparations.
In that, this county pays people below a certain median for children.
Yet, the government will not be made a patsy of.
So, when you are married and have no tax id and are just the family man.
They will penalize you as a male.
For in essence trying to get paid off the government for having a child.
In a country that abolished slavery for children.
You will not make a mockery of two vessells they gave reparations to as a male.
Which are children and females,...
So, that is why they are hard on divorced males.
Most males do not realize the long con.
They are agreeing to in marriage and what they say about their character.
When you solely provide 100 percent.
In a country that says legally to get married you are to provide fifty Percent a piece.
Plus you will not b*stardize the system by just having kids like back in the day.
As the Keynesian theories of the depression era in place of the perfecr home.
That includes, the picket fence, hubby/wife/dog/chuld era.
Was wiped away when civil and social unrest made released the females From slavery of the 1950's model.
Not to mention, women from war times predating it swayed lawmakers.
To set it up and give them equality fully via law as well.
During the civil rights era.
Which was really about just women being free.
Not like the country pr'd.
when it said everyone else was free to soothe and settle civil unrest.
now, we have BC and a change of laws.
That reflect new freedoms for females and children.
I think you do not know the full nature of the beast when it comes to this country.
Plus what marriage currently is legally.
Most females know this info.
Or acquire it as they go when approaching marriage.
Which is where the long con comes in for the goofball simp sucker who provides one hundred percent.
Art Barr
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
I operate in good faith.
I do not do dikk dastardly thinking such as you speak of.
I know you could do this.
Yet, why play a female.
You do not want them to long con you.
So, why go willingly into a situation where they are con'd or duped.
Or you are looking to leave them holding on to liability.
Shame shame on you winb83.
I did not get this house from my former lover by being a conman.
I got my digs because i was forthright and real.
I acted in goof faith.
So, should you.
You may get rewarded for it as I have.
Yet, do not do it for a reward.
Just operate in good faith to just be a good person.
Art Barr