My girlfriend wants to move in together

Sandy_Cheeks

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yup I read that a few years back, that sh1t doesn't finish developing until your mid 20s :ohhh:


All those dumb hoes in my middle school pushing baby carriages are probably like :why: right now


Hell yea! and all these dumb little boys who knocked em up are probably like :mindblown::snoop:
 

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You are playing yourself at your age shacking up

get a roomate or a second job if money really is an issue

If I do that how much money you think ima need to bring in monthly, to live comfortable in Dallas. Its 1 bedrooms out here for less than 600
 

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@BrothaZay

Dont listen to these lames, the only person who's living your life is you. You're gonna fukk up in life but its always easier to bounce back when you're young. If you move back home at 19-20, its not as frowned upon as coming back at 30+ :huhldup:

Having your residence before you can legally buy alcohol is a feeling every man should embrace, the power :wow: :ohlawd:
If you can handle that responsibility you're gonna notice a lot of improvements in your life.

It forces you to grow the fukk up, you'll always strive for the best because having your own becomes the standard much earlier in life than for most of your peers. That sounds like common sense when you read it, but look around you :usure:
 
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If I do that how much money you think ima need to bring in monthly, to live comfortable in Dallas. Its 1 bedrooms out here for less than 600

A high estimate for utilities is probably $200/month. Just depends how much you're home and the time of year.

Then add cable/internet if you get those. Plus whatever other bills you have. Car insurance, gas, food, etc.

Realistically, you probably need to take home ~$1500/month just to live if you were by yourself. That's not including recreation, savings, etc.
 

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A high estimate for utilities is probably $200/month. Just depends how much you're home and the time of year.

Then add cable/internet if you get those. Plus whatever other bills you have. Car insurance, gas, food, etc.

Realistically, you probably need to take home ~$1500/month just to live if you were by yourself. That's not including recreation, savings, etc.

I estimated all expenses would be around 1300 a month.

fucc car insurance:heh:
 

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If I do that how much money you think ima need to bring in monthly, to live comfortable in Dallas. Its 1 bedrooms out here for less than 600

You in school right and you got a job right? In Florida while I was in college my end of the bills was like 450-600 a month. and that was rent+ lights + cable Thas not bad at all..

I live alone now and my rent by itself is $700
 

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Wait, OP is only 18? :what:

Hell no, don't do this. My little brother was talking about moving in with his girl friend at the this age, and me and my moms looked at him like he was nuts. You may think you're grown and you're serious with this chick, but trust me from experience... a lot of shyt changes over time. Don't move in with a girlfriend because of "financial" reasons ever. I have a good friend who's contemplating moving his girl in with him and he's 27... he's using the same excuse. "She gonna help me out with some of these bills" when in reality he just wants her to be around.

Kids growing up to fast man, take your time. You'll have plenty of time to play house in life, you sure you want that right now?
 

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I estimated all expenses would be around 1300 a month.

fucc car insurance:heh:

Man. Careful with that shyt. Judgements aren't necessarily dischargeble in bankruptcy if you fukk up and hit someone. They'll garnish your wages. And if there's injuries involved? Get ready to work for free for the next several years.
 

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Im looking at about 600-700 a month if we split everything down the middle. Thats pretty good, and i can have a couple hundred, maybe even a stack after bills is paid.

Would yall do it?

Never I mean never ever move within a girl for financial reasons ....

I wouldn't even move in with a female period
 

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girls cost 80 a day on average.
Plus, if you are not really good at protected sex.
To the point you have a girl who readily puts in vcf's on her own volition.
You should Not make this move.
Only spend the night with females.
Never shack up, unless you got an iron clad degree and an actual career.
Plus she is great at unprotected sex and she has a career of your own.
If you make this move.
You only setting yourself up for an eic vampire.
You are black.
You not some white or Asian couple who knows to get a dog, instead of a kid.

If you make this move,...get ready for that eic vampire to clown you for eic, and cs.
You think ya mom's is an eic vampire on bullshyt.
wait till you empower this eic vampire you fukking.


Art Barr
 

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You in school right and you got a job right? In Florida while I was in college my end of the bills was like 450-600 a month. and that was rent+ lights + cable Thas not bad at all..

I live alone now and my rent by itself is $700

Damn howd you do that, was you on some kind of assistance?
 

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Damn howd you do that, was you on some kind of assistance?

Plus I had a $450 car note...I had a job where I was working 30+ hours a week. I took out a loan, so i used to get back $1500-$2000 every sememster to put towards whatever I might need
 

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Plus I had a $450 car note...I had a job where I was working 30+ hours a week. I took out a loan, so i used to get back $1500-$2000 every sememster to put towards whatever I might need

Thats good.

Well hopefully this dude Im working for let me get more work each week, im free 5 days and the nikka already pay me like 150 every sunday just for working 3 hours.
Ima try to reach for 400 a week part time
 
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