My girlfriend wants to move in together
- Thread starter BrothaZay
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Breh, I did it twice
once for love, once for finance
you are going to find out so much that you never wanted to know about that girl that you will hate that girl by the end of this
Your gonna do what you gotta do, but at least you know
If you don't intend to marry her, don't do this
Never move in with a chick if you can avoid it. In a perfect world she's gonna pay her share and y'all will always get along and in the real world you'll likely end up paying more than your share of the bills and y'all will fight like cats and dogs.
If you put her name on the lease and don't make her sign and contract stating what she'll pay then she don't gotta pay shyt and you can't kick her out.
you wanna play it that way the fine. have her get the place in her name alone. you move in with her and establish residence there. get some mail with your name and that address. this way she can't throw you out she has to give you 30 days notice to evict you and if she tries to throw you out you can get the police to force her to let you back in or sue her.
whenever this chick starts talking about she's short on the rent money or needs you to pay a bit of her share or starts acting funny about the money if your name isn't on that lease you can leave whenever you want and you aren't responsible for jack shyt. you don't even have to notify her because really its her place and she's totally responsible.
Tha Snowman
Rookie
Yep. Solid advice.
I cohabitated for a while. Honestly, I wouldn't do it again. Breaking up is just that much more messy.
But it was a good experience up until the end. Good luck.
Go ahead with it if you want to have your woman all up under you and want to come home having to see her every day and deal with nagging in different aspects. Don't forget if ya'll break up, she'll probably be the one to jet and you'll be left paying that by yourself... that's if you can get her to pay her 50% share in the first place. "Oh hey, I came up short this month... Can you help me out on my half please?" lol
Beedad
All Star
A few words of advice .... don't key her car and clear the history on your laptop. You don't want her finding the sites you go to when she's not home.
I think you are too young to be boxing yourself into that corner, but I can appreciate the financial benefits...
don't do it
If you think your mom is bad with the rules, wait until she gets comfortable around you and starts trying to set some house rules for you and you're stuck because both of ya'lls names are on the lease.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
This advice is like saying don't put ketchup and mustard on your peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. Why would he key her car
And if he's gonna move in with her, I'd advise him to be open about (or at least not hide) the sites he visits. I believe it's a bad move to act like "one of the good ones" and hide your flaws from a woman. Then it turns into mommy mode and you're in your own house hiding stuff that you do and like from her. Can't be scared to live your normal life in your own crib. ESPECIALLY with a chick you're not even married to.
Beedad
All Star
This advice is like saying don't put ketchup and mustard on your peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. Why would he key her car
And if he's gonna move in with her, I'd advise him to be open about (or at least not hide) the sites he visits. I believe it's a bad move to act like "one of the good ones" and hide your flaws from a woman. Then it turns into mommy mode and you're in your own house hiding stuff that you do and like from her. Can't be scared to live your normal life in your own crib. ESPECIALLY with a chick you're not even married to.
It's a referrence the OP will understand. It wasn't for you, breh.
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...me-who-keyed-her-car-wants-take-me-court.html
on the low.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
It's a referrence the OP will understand. It wasn't for you, breh.
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...me-who-keyed-her-car-wants-take-me-court.html
