My girlfriends dog just died & apparently I'm not comforting enough

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Her dog died this morning & she spent most of her day developing pictures & decorating in her dogs honor. I told her I hope she feels better & I try to keep the convo going throughout the day. Later she called me & was crying on the phone and I'm just sitting there like :dwillhuh:

I've never had anyone die in my family nor have I had a pet that has lived longer than 3 weeks :dwillhuh: wtf you supposed to say. Anyway, we got off the phone cuz apparently she was just gonna go to sleep but like 10 min later she hit me up and said "I wish you were more comforting :mjcry:"

I did a google search on bing on what to say but all I got was a bunch of cliche shyt :dwillhuh:
 

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Her dog died this morning & she spent most of her day developing pictures & decorating in her dogs honor. I told her I hope she feels better & I try to keep the convo going throughout the day. Later she called me & was crying on the phone and I'm just sitting there like :dwillhuh:

I've never had anyone die in my family nor have I had a pet that has lived longer than 3 weeks :dwillhuh: wtf you supposed to say. Anyway, we got off the phone cuz apparently she was just gonna go to sleep but like 10 min later she hit me up and said "I wish you were more comforting :mjcry:"

I did a google search on bing on what to say but all I got was a bunch of cliche shyt :dwillhuh:

Don't worry fam I got her :youngsabo:
 

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Tell her the truth. Tell her that you care for her and want her to get better but you really do not know what to say since you do not have a lot of experience. Tell her that you've been looking up how to comfort but can't find the right words. Just make sure she know's that you still care for her and will be there for her. She should understand that. Some people have close connections to their pets. I had a pet before and when she passed I was extremely sad.
 

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Having an animal die that took care of and grew up with is really, really sad breh :ld:





I know that to you it might not be that serious, but if she's been with that dog for a considerable amount of time she basically just lost a huge part of her life.
 
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