My grandpa just passed away brehs.

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I wouldn't be on here man. Unless it was looking up funny shyt or something to help slow your mind mainly because there's cats who care here for sure but there's a lot of losers who are gonna try to prod you.


Mom's and G'Mom need your presence and most importantly to see your face right now. RIP to G'Pa
 

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Be as much support to your mother and grandmother as you possibly can. Especially your grandmother.
 

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I been there...
:mjcry:

Lost mines in 07, two months before HS graduation
He was like my dad cuz we hung out so much, and He basically raised me since my mom had me at a young age...
I mean he had it coming cuz he was a depressed alcoholic... But that shyt hit me hard

Condolences breh :salute:
 

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People cope in different ways, maybe OP just needed to talk to someone other than family right now, talk to someone who has been through it but not as close to the situation.


Sorry for your family's loss. It's just going to take time. We all know it's coming one day but that doesn't mean you are ready for it when it happens. It just takes time to accept and deal.


Just try to be helpful and give them space if they ask. Make sure they eat and sleep. Help out with somethings they usually do everyday but can't right now. If there is any kind of arrangement planning y'all can do or finding documents etc... Start on that.
 

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My mom broke down right now crying:mjcry:


Pops called me and my sister and we all at the house right now:mjcry:



Idk what to do brehs I really don't, we trying to comfort my mom and grandma but we don't know what to do :mjcry:


Anybody got some experience with this please help:mjcry:



Im sorry.... best thing to do is just hug and be present even if no one is talking.
 

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RIP to your grandpa!

just be there.
you have no idea how much that is valued.
you'll feel like you ain't doing enough, but trust me -
just sitting there and holding a person's hand or a hug for some reason means a lot.

the family just buried an uncle of mine yesterday.
my aunt is a mess.cannot even begin to understand losing the love of your life.
all i did was help wherever i could.
unfortunate part of life!!
 

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Sorry for you and your family's loss breh. I hope y'all get the healing you need.
 
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